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Post time 2014-6-18 11:39:41 |Display all floors
This post was edited by messi30 at 2014-6-18 11:43
robert237 Post time: 2014-6-18 11:17
If I had to boil it all down to one phrase to describe my wife it would be that she has a warm heart ...


In my prior post i was talking about losers and here u are

Her favorite thing is shopping and so I take her shopping every Saturday.

Shopping
She is smart, I told you before, she is smart


The other six days I get spoiled.
I get a one hour massage almost every night before I go to sleep and on weekdays I get a 20 minute
head and shoulder massage before I leave for work.
I like to cook but she does all the tedious stuff like chopping the onions and garlic.
If I want iced tea all I have to do is ask. She always has fresh brewed ice tea in the refrigerator.

Seems u wanted a maid full service 365/7/24
I know you failed in your bride searching in Vietnan and Bangladesh but finally you succeded in China.
You took her to USA and now she is very thankful to you Robert, thats the true.



One thing that we disagree on bicycle riding. I've always had a bike but when I married her she would not let me
ride my bike. She was afraid I'd get killed in traffic. She sees stories on the new almost every week about someone
getting killed while riding their bicycle on the street and thinks it will happen to me. My bike fell into disrepair and I
gave it away. Now I want to buy a new bike to ride to work since my job is only 4.5 miles away and there are trails
2/3 of the way there. She is resisting but maybe I can win this one.
Her latest threat is, "go ahead and buy the bike but no more massages".
That is unacceptable. I'll have to keep negotiating.

We know u want to save money in massages but try to take her out more often. She still thinks  she is in China with a lot of accidents involving bikes, cars and fat guys like you, sure, you are her big assest and provider, she must take care of you at any cost. I suggest you to take her out more often and show her that USA is not too dangerous in driving as in China.

Happy wife, happy life. unhappy wallet
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

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Post time 2014-6-18 12:06:26 |Display all floors
I know that our culture and beliefs have taught Chinese women to put their family as their first priority.

I have found they put "Their family first" I'm looking for one that puts her marriage and husband as a first  priority!

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Post time 2014-6-18 12:12:23 |Display all floors
"Why should you marry a Chinese Bride?" Answer one: you should not unless you are the groom. If it is  someone else's bride, the other guy might get upset!

"Why should you marry a Chinese Bride?" Answer two:  because it is your job . You  are a a Register Office official or a minister of the cloth!

These answers might give a hint that the title is a poor one in Engkish. You do not need both marry and bride, that is redundant.

It should read : Why you should marry a Chinese woman OR Why you should take a Chinese Bride.

The correct answe to both is: because you love her!  

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Post time 2014-6-18 12:17:09 |Display all floors
ColinSpeakman Post time: 2014-6-18 14:12
"Why should you marry a Chinese Bride?" Answer one: you should not unless you are the groom. If it i ...


well said my friend! I always enjoy your 'clarifications'! They come with just the right amount of 'spice'...
My friend the Black Swan

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Post time 2014-6-18 14:43:17 |Display all floors
robert237 Post time: 2014-6-18 11:17
If I had to boil it all down to one phrase to describe my wife it would be that she has a warm heart ...

waht a happy life you have! I hope one day I could also find my soulmate!

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Post time 2014-6-18 16:16:02 |Display all floors
If i can ,I want to marry with a foreigner.

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Post time 2014-6-18 16:36:07 |Display all floors
This post was edited by dostoevskydr at 2014-6-18 16:36
the2pid1 Post time: 2014-6-18 12:06
...I'm looking for one that puts her marriage and husband as a first  priority!

Never happened, never will

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