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Post time 2014-4-30 22:45:03 |Display all floors
kodayuu Post time: 2014-4-30 15:15
It is said that some nerves in face may affect the hearing.
True?

I heard, that it is located directly across the buttock, but the sciencists still argue over it...
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Seriously - I've neven been hit (slapped)  in the face, but some people tried to do it - with the consequences. I've been hit while some fights (seems to be quite natural at some age...) but my hearing is still somewhere between the bat and hare (responses during the recent audiometry were "top ones").

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Post time 2014-4-30 23:33:53 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2014-4-30 22:45
I heard, that it is located directly across the buttock, but the sciencists still argue over it... ...

I was punched on the nose, then it turned sanguinary

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Post time 2014-5-1 07:26:10 |Display all floors
Hitting your child teaches them a few things:
1- violence is a solution
2- I'm not mature or intelligent enough to handle this situation
3- doing what people tell you to do because they are stronger is acceptable
4- discussing emotions and talking through a difficult situation is beyond me

There are so many discipline methods that parents can use which are more effective in the long run. I could go and say "I was never hit and I was a well behaved child" but using an individual as an example isn't really a strong argument. There have been more and more studies in the past ten years that have shown spanking to cause more aggression and emotional dysfunction in children throughout their life.

Essentially, building closer emotional bonds, communicating feelings, rewarding desirable behaviors, growing a sense of trust during difficult times rather than driving a wedge between parent and child, and many other methods can build discipline, respect and long lasting positive social behaviour.

If you don't believe me, read these reports from Peer reviewed journals, not from pop media:
http://www.cmaj.ca/content/184/12/1373
http://www.cmaj.ca/content/184/12/1339
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/101/4/723.full
http://adc.bmj.com/content/83/3/196.full
http://pediatrics.aappublication ... 25/5/e1057.abstract
These are just a few of many many studies that show the negative effects of spanking.

Don't spank your children, it just shows you are a child.

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Post time 2014-5-1 13:45:32 |Display all floors
Bloke Post time: 2014-5-1 00:26
Hitting your child teaches them a few things:
1- violence is a solution
2- I'm not mature or intelli ...

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Post time 2014-5-1 15:56:24 |Display all floors
Ricky Martin often gets spanked....and enjoys it!!

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Post time 2014-5-1 20:57:53 |Display all floors
I explain to the child as to why they are being punished, and how to avoid being punished again. I am available to my kids any time they need me.

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Post time 2014-5-1 21:07:02 |Display all floors
spanking,part of childhood memory

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