When two different national decide to enter into marriage, then both should open their minds to each others culture. And agree to except some change but not all. One cannot always have it there own way like the small spoilt brat. How can an girl marry a laowai and expect him to change his life style and social behaviour, if she does not want to adapt to none. I totally refuse to own any cell phone in China, for the reason I do not want my wife calling me every ten minutes,and I do not want to call her 3 times a day. I don't want outsiders calling to sell me something I don't want, or the usual cheat and scam calls. I will carry her bag, wash and iron her clothes, walk her to and from the work place, cook breakfast every morning. Most things I am very happy to comply with however a compromise can often be reached. I about understanding, give and take, not all you give and not all I take. Do not pass judgement on all laowai's, do not class them all the same, this is ignorance on your behave. Culturally differences need a balance if she is complaining then just maybe it is she has not take the time to learn about hom cultural way, no room for complaintit cannot be justified.