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It sounds to me like he is looking for a young and pretty wife to bring back to the USA. It is likely she would improve her living situation, but at the loss of family, friends, and personal freedom. Does she love him?|
It is also possible he has a girl like your friend in every city in China that he goes to. Successful businessmen are not to be trusted, in my opinion. Most of the time, they became successful by using and abusing others, stealing their credit, etc. There is not a single honest one in my company. They say and do what is needed to make more money, even if it means hurting others below their status level.
The fact that he asked your friend if she's interested in an older, wealthy guy means this guy knows how things work in China. I don't think he loves her. I think he just wants a pretty wife to take home.
She should also know that she cannot move to the US without knowing English pretty well. They will reject her at the visa interview, so there is also that.
I think she should tell him "No, thanks." and get on with her life in China. He does seem like a predator. Why? For an older, wealthy Chinese man to look for a young Chinese woman is normal. For an older American man to do this? He wants a pretty young woman to cook, clean, and have sex with him who will not give him any back-talk. Then, she gets to change his diapers when he's old, and maybe never see her family again. Does that sound like a happy existence?
It's possible he is genuine, but it smells fishy to me.
She should stay and look for an honest guy instead, her own age. If she is pretty and smart, that will not be a problem. ;)