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snowipine Post time: 2013-10-13 06:24
Here is saying，“women were made with water and，men were made with mud”
I think you knew this p ...
I have never heard such a proverb, and I cannot understand your explanation of it.
I ask a fundamental question - are you male or female?
Based on your posts in this thread, you appear to be claiming that men are the instigators of an affair, seeking some freshness and excitement in their relationship.
Women do likewise, and you would be naive to think that this is not the case.
As "thruthbetold1" has highlighted, that a marriage (in most cases in Western society) has intimacy as a fundamental pillar of it's structure, and when that intimacy is removed by one partner or the other, then it is a logical occurrence that one may seek that component from outside of the marriage, be they male or female.
The concept of marriage as being a way of obtaining "mutual benefits" for the greater families of the married couple such as I understand was (and still is) often the case in China, then the concept of intimacy, love and caring for each other is removed - being replaced by greed for success, in whatever field is sought.
The result of this type of marriage is usually not pretty, with infidelity being the norm, such as mistresses, "second" or even "third" wives being bought into the marriage.