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To grow up is to be more lonely? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-10-8 23:42:26 |Display all floors
Will you feel more lonely when you grow up? I can always feel the obivious loneliness now and then. Now I would hide my true feelings in order  not to be hurted. I would hide my qualities in order to get along well with others. I would hold my secrets in order not to be spread. I feel more guarding against others.
And sometimes I can't conqure it. I just can't find the right one around just fit to be my close friend. Do I ask too much? How to get a close friend?
Am I not confident enough to live my own? Am I not strong enough to bear loneliness? Not brave enough to ignore others' opinions?
Or, the life only experienced loneliness can be mature?

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Post time 2013-10-9 09:42:37 |Display all floors
Be the true yourself. Tear off that mask.
Why should you hide your feelings?
Life only comes once, cherish it.
Don't wasting time on wondering how other people may judge you.
Life is what you make of it

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Post time 2013-10-9 12:51:00 |Display all floors
DSseeing Post time: 2013-10-9 09:42
Be the true yourself. Tear off that mask.
Why should you hide your feelings?
Life only comes once, ...

Thank you for your advice, I will try to live my own life, the life amuse me~~ Although I can't gather enough courage to live like this, I wil try to and be used to it in the future!

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Post time 2013-10-9 16:24:07 |Display all floors
Are you a sensitive person? Are you often emotionally affected by other people's words?

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Post time 2013-10-9 21:04:03 |Display all floors
PPsally Post time: 2013-10-9 16:24
Are you a sensitive person? Are you often emotionally affected by other people's words?

Although I try to be not  so sensitive, I am in deed~~

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Post time 2013-10-9 22:28:49 |Display all floors
Perhaps you haven't find friends alike yet, similar minds, values... .

Don't listen to sentimental lyric songs.
Don't read/see sentimental novels/movies.
Curiosity kills lonliness.
So much to know. No time for feeling lonely.
A system that cannot nip greed in the bud, this system becomes the breeding ground of crime.

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Post time 2013-10-9 22:36:22 |Display all floors
shengshi Post time: 2013-10-9 22:28
Perhaps you haven't find friends alike yet, similar minds, values... .

Don't listen to sentimental  ...

I always make myself busy to avoid this feeling now. I always can't find friends alike around, but some close friends are made after we are apart. Does the distance really makes the sense of beauty?
And I would like to talk about my feelings with friends far away~~  

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