Author: JFenix

Attention 'Leftover' Women: Come to America!   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-10-3 02:43:25 |Display all floors
'Leftover' Women of China (I hate even typing that)...

Come to America.  You will not be looked down upon, that I can guarantee you.

Don't let a man devalue you.  Women are like a fine red wine........

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Post time 2013-10-3 09:31:02 |Display all floors
This post was edited by manoj10 at 2013-10-3 06:31
JFenix Post time: 2013-10-2 23:20
I'm just speaking from my experiences and what I see around me.

No one calls girls a 'leftover' h ...



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JFenix Post time: 2013-10-3 02:43
'Leftover' Women of China (I hate even typing that)...

Come to America.  You will not be looked dow ...

That is very nice of you speaking out for the women who are over 30 in China.

It is enviroment of chinese men created words" left-over women"...
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Post time 2013-10-3 09:47:00 |Display all floors
JFenix Post time: 2013-10-3 02:36
I am 47 dating a man that is 51.  

We are in a romance as if we were teenagers again.

Men prefer mature women or little chicks ? That is one thing as a woman should try to figure it out.

And it is hard to say...
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Post time 2013-10-3 20:49:57 |Display all floors
greatlady Post time: 2013-10-3 09:47
Men prefer mature women or little chicks ? That is one thing as a woman should try to figure it ou ...

American men are looking for a partner and there are single men of every age, so usually they kind of stay within their age group.

They just want someone who can be their best friend.

Romance does not have an expiry date, nor should it.  

So chinese men are not romantic?  They don't care about the personality?

This puzzles me.   Chinese-American are not this way.   I dated a chinese-american.  He was a romantic.

  
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Post time 2013-10-3 20:51:57 |Display all floors
seneca Post time: 2013-10-3 11:15
You are again on a high, Jenny Fanatica. Most of these women don't speak English. What do you think  ...
The leftover woman label would be swapped for "the poor immigrant-seeking-a-rich-guy" label.


Why would that be their only option?

Why not start a career here?  Why seek out a rich guy?  Why not someone who would appreciate their company?  Romance them...
  
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Post time 2013-10-3 22:35:59 |Display all floors
Right on JFenix! Language can be overcome. My wife spoke very little English when she came to the USA.
She studies every day, attends adult education. We sit together every night and I teach or correct her.
I'm amazed at her progress. Her favorite word, Costco!
Just looking at each other each day and smiling is communicating.
I'm 59 and she is 50. I did not want a young wife!

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