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Unexpected guests? Unwanted visitors? What to do with them?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-8-4 15:44:48 |Display all floors
snappysammy Post time: 2013-8-3 09:25
send them to a hotel

For short visits, not possible.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2013-8-4 15:47:12 |Display all floors
gulfalco Post time: 2013-8-4 15:44
just don't answer the door, works for me

Could be a good idea but sometimes it's easy to notice that we are at home.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2013-8-4 16:04:42 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2013-8-4 15:47
Could be a good idea but sometimes it's easy to notice that we are at home.

well, it still might work here in China, right? {:soso_e112:}
with the whole wanting to save face thing, I can imagine people coming to my door and knowing I am there
then I just get real quiet and they get the idea eventually {:soso_e104:}

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Post time 2013-8-4 16:10:58 |Display all floors
gulfalco Post time: 2013-8-4 16:04
well, it still might work here in China, right?
with the whole wanting to save face  ...

Yeah, its like sending them a message.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2013-8-4 20:48:59 |Display all floors
I would find excuses, like I have an appointment.
Life is what you make of it

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Post time 2013-8-5 17:48:59 |Display all floors
This post was edited by messi30 at 2013-8-9 17:49
DSseeing Post time: 2013-8-4 20:48
I would find excuses, like I have an appointment.

Yeah. Its a good way to be cruel with them.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2013-8-7 11:05:10 |Display all floors
It doesn't matter if a close friend drops by.
Life is hard; it's harder if you're stupid.

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