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[Cross-culture marriage] What are the consequences of marrying a Chinese woman?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-6-29 14:08:31 |Display all floors
A blogger named “North America Brother Cui” post an article about 6 consequences of a foreigner will have if he marries a Chinese woman because of big culture difference. Here following are these 6 consequences:

No.1. Once you married to a Chinese, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family. In less than half a year, his wife’s parents, sisters with kids came to his home. In his words, his home was occupied by Chinese.

No.2. Once you live with Chinese, you do not have privacy any more. Chinese are hospitable; there should be no distance between on another if being together. He said that once his father-in-law pushed the door and walked in to the toilet when he was sitting on the toilet seat.

No.3. He is not allowed to tough anywhere at home. His wife wraps the furniture and rug with plastic in order to keep them clean without dust. The perfectly layout of all furniture is all for look only.

No.4. Chinese love meat, he likes to eat whatever dishes his wife made, but better without knowing what they are.

No.5. Never quarrel with your Chinese wife. If you do, it is not a small deal. Your lady will bring up things back to long time ago. The word “sorry” will not work on this. You have to give her a reason which is acceptable. In his opinion, Chinese wives were born with a mission to transform men and control them in everything. He declared that the reason why China can not produce a explorer like Columbus is Chinese wife will start inquiring before he sail, such as “where? with whom? Is there any woman on the ship? How old is she? Is she married? And how is she look?” Then, the man will give it up.

No.6. They will drive your kids to death. Chinese family gives too much pressure to their child. To force them to learn piano, ballet, English, drawing at a very young age. Chinese will always have a goal in their life. To buy a house, change it to a bigger one, send kids to school, then to a doctoral degree, at last to a big company. They make life so hard for themselves.

What do you think?

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Post time 2013-6-29 18:18:29 |Display all floors
Obviously it is not true for all Chinese brides but definitely some truth is what he says.  Especially No. 5, I get some of that from my Chinese wife, especially the last part.  Don't have problems from her on the rest of them though. {:soso_e100:}

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Post time 2013-7-1 03:42:57 |Display all floors
{:soso_e101:}Oh God, where did I do wrong for you to do this to me?{:soso_e150:}

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Post time 2013-7-1 09:26:53 |Display all floors
Have not had any of those issues, maybe because I'm a man who doesn't tolerate BS.
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Post time 2013-7-1 12:26:05 |Display all floors
jay_dee Post time: 2013-7-1 09:26
Have not had any of those issues, maybe because I'm a man who doesn't tolerate BS.

Same here, in any marriage, whether cross cultural or within the same culture, it is important to set strong boundaries in the very beginning. And to respect each other of course.
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Post time 2013-7-1 12:29:43 |Display all floors
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Post time 2013-7-1 15:41:47 |Display all floors
I think he needs to discover some LOVE AND RESPECT FOR HIMSELF.
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