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[Cross-culture marriage] [Original]What about your first date?   [Copy link] 中文

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DSseeing Post time: 2013-6-24 17:28
Yeah, I remember.
We had dinner and she wanted to sleep with me

Did you let her?

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futsanglung Post time: 2013-6-29 08:36
Did you let her?

It's so difficult for a man to fight such a woman off. We are weak and usually sacrifice our innocence gracefully.{:soso_e117:}

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Laowai2? Post time: 2013-6-29 15:57
It's so difficult for a man to fight such a woman off. We are weak and usually sacrifice our innoc ...

Poor excuse, you should have tried harder to hold your end up

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I remember in my youth  celebrating the first month of the relationship with my gf, I invited her to a nice and elegant restaurant. Days before I checked the menu prices and I made some efforts to have enough money to have a romantic and special diner with her for the ocassion.
Wrongly I didn´t make reservation and when we tried to get it in the receptionist told us they are full and they only attending by reservation. So we walked around looking a restaurant with similar enviroment (the area were in zona rosa, means cool and expensive zone) . We got in, i checked the menu and the prices were a bit higher than the one i checked it before, we order grill meat, appetizers and suddenly the waiter offered us a bottle of wine, my gf looked at me and I said YES, mentally i was calculating  the bill and i started to worry for my limited wallet, i wasn´t prepared for that restaurant, We had excellent chatting, telling jokes but my worries came to my mind once in a while. Suddenly my gf hold my hand and said ¨I know you can´t afford this wonderful dinner by yourself, don´t worry i have some extra bucks, so we share it¨ and following for some sweet words from her, she gave  me a kiss.
We had a great night with dancing included. Unforgetable date.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Smaug Post time: 2013-6-27 20:31
Hmmm. For us, I guess you could say our first date was virtual. We chatted by email and text a coupl ...

haha, I still remember the first post you wrote asking for help when you were still in US.
This forum vitnesses your lovelife .
Are you doing well ?
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messi30 Post time: 2013-7-2 13:37
I remember in my youth  celebrating the first month of the relationship with my gf, I invited her to ...

Sounds so compatiible. you found yourself a nice GF. How did the relationship go then?
Life is what you make of it

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futsanglung Post time: 2013-6-29 08:36
Did you let her?

Why not
Life is what you make of it

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