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Post time 2013-3-21 09:32:28 |Display all floors
truthbetold1 Post time: 2013-3-21 07:35
My understanding of some women is that finding the right guy with money is important so they don't h ...

what if the right guy has no money?

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bigbull Post time: 2013-3-21 08:40
in today's society money rules not love.

in that case, men have every right to cheat on their wives.... money rules!

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Mike412 Post time: 2013-3-21 09:32
what if the right guy has no money?

- money will not keep a guy faithful....
- money will not make a guy respect you.....
- money will not make a guy love you.....
- money will not make your relationship happy......

- money on the other hand will help him buy a mistress later on in life when your body become old and wrinkled.

So money does come with its benefits (for men you can buy the best of everything including upgrading yourself to a newer and more beautiful model) hehe

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Post time 2013-3-21 12:57:44 |Display all floors
Mike412 Post time: 2013-3-21 09:32
what if the right guy has no money?

maybe if He have not money - He can show other way to prove, that He is able to build a family

money are only one of the factors.

if a man can not afford for a basic needs - something is wrong, and He may not be a good "foundation of a family" - in this aspect I totally agree

but... if He have salary enough to pay a rent (or a loan rate) for a clean and safe apartment, can afford every basic equipment for it (kitchen, bathroom and laundry stuff), wears clean clothes, and have no problem with a simple pleasures for himself and His mate (movies, theater, sometimes restaurant, occasional gift)? isn't IT a "good basis" in the meaning of financial safety?

sometimes I see on the street young man with a girlfriend (wife?) walking in "second hand" (or looking like that) and not so clean clothes, but BOTH of them waving newest face-Phone... is IT wealth?

or maybe a wealth is to buy a crappy apartment in a worst district or the same quality house in distant village, and 20-yo car? (both "required" as a "wealthy" status signs - "own home" and "car")?

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Post time 2013-3-21 16:20:54 |Display all floors
if you sell your heart out for money. then good luck. youre a shallow individual with nothing more than a fleeting soul.

love over money any day.

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truthbetold1 Post time: 2013-3-21 10:54
in that case, men have every right to cheat on their wives.... money rules!

good point

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RE: Love vs money in marriage

WhiteBear Post time: 2013-3-21 12:57
maybe if He have not money - He can show other way to prove, that He is able to build a family

mo ...

insightfull. good living attitude

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