Mike412 Post time: 2013-3-21 09:32
what if the right guy has no money?
maybe if He have not money - He can show other way to prove, that He is able to build a family
money are only one of the factors.
if a man can not afford for a basic needs - something is wrong, and He may not be a good "foundation of a family" - in this aspect I totally agree
but... if He have salary enough to pay a rent (or a loan rate) for a clean and safe apartment, can afford every basic equipment for it (kitchen, bathroom and laundry stuff), wears clean clothes, and have no problem with a simple pleasures for himself and His mate (movies, theater, sometimes restaurant, occasional gift)? isn't IT a "good basis" in the meaning of financial safety?
sometimes I see on the street young man with a girlfriend (wife?) walking in "second hand" (or looking like that) and not so clean clothes, but BOTH of them waving newest face-Phone... is IT wealth?
or maybe a wealth is to buy a crappy apartment in a worst district or the same quality house in distant village, and 20-yo car? (both "required" as a "wealthy" status signs - "own home" and "car")?