I already did (girl) and I have. Don't believe half of what you dead on this forum. There are many wonderful Chinese women who make ideal wives and despite what you might read, most Chinese are very welcoming to foreigners. Obviously there are pros and cons of living in China as there are in any country in the world. You have to weigh up what lifestyle you want and can afford.
This post was edited by TarimDuar at 2013-3-17 23:06
I married a beautiful Chinese lady. And I am pleased with the life I have here in China. Don't think it is all sugar and spice; there are many obstacles to overcome; for example family, personal and cultural differences, but that is normal with most international marriages. Plus isn't that what true love is about, choosing to lover her/him as they are? You know marriage is the graveyard of the self and the life spring of love and life.
I am also settled here, and I can tell you that if you are well educated and experienced you can make a very good life for yourself here. And yes the people are like any other place some are good and some are not so good, and some just don't care about anything.
waiboshu Post time: 2013-3-19 13:42
I'd like to know your love story,
My love story is not one I would advise others to take. We married after seven months of online chatting and one month in China. We had our first child three years later. I came here as a tourist, not intending to marry.