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China's 'leftover women', unmarried at 27   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-2-24 14:15:29 |Display all floors
elzach Post time: 2013-2-23 22:12
This is quite hilarious actually.

In all seriousness though, let's face it, the "problem" is tha ...

you are true to say this. many Chinese womans do not want Chinese man. They only want Western man or any man. But they do not want the Chinese mens.

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Post time 2013-2-24 19:30:13 |Display all floors
lil.azngurl Post time: 2013-2-24 14:15
you are true to say this. many Chinese womans do not want Chinese man. They only want Western man  ...

Well, look at it this way, Chinese blogs on this kind of topic are full of Chinese men trying to put down foreign and Western men....but they don't provide a single reason WHY a high-quality Chinese woman should pick them. That speaks volumes.
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Post time 2013-2-25 01:14:32 |Display all floors
China is very old country even back from the brim of very underdeveloped stage, inevitably China still carries and faces all its ancient customs and traditions which are not all that  easy to be erased given all of that are so deeply anchored in the society.  However, like all traditions, they are not all construed with logic, and inspiration. By contrast, many become an embarrassment or obstacle for the better balance of the society on many urgent aspects...The marriage age arbitration seems to be one of them, if it were then necessary in the old agrarian society where families so depended on gathering more members to sustain their chance of the survivability,  and nowadays, this idea is looming to be less obvious and even nuisance to many young people who are still pressed into any unjust marriage. Given the change might take time, all are easier said than done especially the effect of this bad omen still play on people psychologically...

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Post time 2013-2-25 09:29:39 |Display all floors
laincoubert Post time: 2013-2-23 13:20
Yes actually the men can take some of the heat here too

have to ask themselves why they not good en ...

That's one of the problems with these "leftover men".  They have been spoiled and coddled all their lives.  They are NOT looking for 'partners' to share life with.  They are looking for "second mothers" to continue to take care of them in the manner to which they have become accustomed.

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Post time 2013-2-25 09:33:29 |Display all floors
"Leftover Women"?  What a disgusting and sexist comment.  Perhaps these women are smarter than most in some areas.  Why should they fall into a trap they are clever enough to recognize?  I would applaud them for being "intelligent" women who know what they want in their own lives and go for it.  Not every woman wants to get married, pop a baby, and be a good little housewife supporting a husband who sees her as second rate.

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Post time 2013-2-26 08:20:56 |Display all floors
msrong Post time: 2013-2-23 13:27
It's incredibly regressive that a Women's Federation would perpetuate the standard of girls relyin ...

Thank that to a woman organisation that is neither an independent organisation, nor even less, an ngo as an independent interest group, but rather an extension body of the world's single largest special interest group, aimed at representing that interest group's interests towards women, rather than representing women's interest towards policy making.

At the same time as you (rightfully so) complain about their attitudes, it is worth noting in which way you are yourself speaking about the issue. Your expression of "not managing to snag a man" (sic) could itself just as well be expressing quite questionable attitudes of yourself towards Men.

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Post time 2013-2-26 14:34:58 |Display all floors
LCSULLA Post time: 2013-2-26 08:20
Thank that to a woman organisation that is neither an independent organisation, nor even less, an  ...
Your expression of "not managing to snag a man" (sic) could itself just as well be expressing quite questionable attitudes of yourself towards Men.


your analysis about me, Dr. L - is far off the mark. But it's a certainty that many men have questionable attitudes about women that need addressing as well.

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