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Misconception. Maybe the reason people, in this case women in China feels some plus factor getting hitched to a Westerner is due to the misinformed and misguided publicity of the advancement achieved by the Westerners in all fields from social (freedom of choice + fairness), culture (civilization), economic, technology etc. |
Westerners could afford the largese previously because they thought they had infinite deep pockets. When people feel they have infinite deep pockets, they generally feel generous and magnanimous. Even Russian women flocked to Westerners compared to their Russian counterparts if not mistaken. But when this feel of largese disappear, will their attitude change?
In many parts of Asia, Asians do not see Westerners as more superior although they do not deny that countries like Germany, Denmark, Norway and Sweden have very well designed system that enabled them to perform above most in this world in terms of technology, including their own European counterparts. But technological prowess is not everything in life and it isn't something that the Chinese cannot equal or exceed over time. Many successful Asian controlled corporations do not worship Western corporations, they only respect them, just like they would respect another Asian corporation. This is Asian value something not so common amongst Western corporations who still hold their superiority complex. Which is better you decide. Many Asian corporations still go about hiring Westerners suitable to advance their economic interest and asking them to go if they cannot perform, treating them no different from any employed Asians. In fact many Chinese and Japanese corporations who have to see some of their staff go due to some unavoidable situations, sometimes help make ease their exits by helping them to another employment elsewhere something not so pervalent in Western corporations - the human relation thing commonly found in many Chinese and Japanese environments. This is one sign of Asians having their own minds, something perhaps many Asians failed to realise, even the Japanese themselves, not just the Chinese. Likewise in man-woman relations. Asian men are equally sophisticated if compared to Westerners, maybe just that impatient unlucky women can't meet them. Many Asian men observe and defend their Asian culture yet am able to respect or bask in Western culture for adding variety to life. A good example will be dining. No doubt that the Chinese and Japanese will excel and exude class when dining in high class restaurant serving Chinese/Japanese cuisine that observes Chinese/Japanese dining ethics but many are also adapt at dining in any high class restaurant serving Western cuisine that observes Western dining ethics. But the same cannot be said of Westeners as many are not good chopstick holders, so how can they bring their Asian spouse to enjoy in a Chinese restaurant which means that Chinese spouse has to sacrifice her culture in the long run. It is not a question of magnanimous heroic sacrificial scene of a Westener struggling madly with chopsticks just to enable her Asian spouse to enjoy her own cultural styled dinner. If such simple thing the Westeners cannot acclimatise to, how far can they go acclimatising Asian women?