family is important~
but no money there will be no family~ your grand mum will not marry your grand father if he dont have money...so your father wll not be born...ur mum is the same...if not, u will not be born...
no money = no house, no food, no education, no clothes...and u will not hav a gf o wife...so no descendant...even when you died...u still need money to be buried and burn papers to you every year~
so dont be sad....its God wants us to be this way...since He love money so much~ and make rich man richer because rich man offers gold to Him in his Temple...what u offer? orange?
and He create woman that loves money so much~
so no choice...don blame urself...blame Him...
This post was edited by WhiteBear at 2012-11-21 18:06
Most important is what You have in Your heart. Seems that You love Your father. And it is really enough. It is the best gift You can give Him.
You can't leave Your work, because then You will have no possibility to earn the money and help Your Dad if He need it. It is different if You live close to Your hometown, but in this case... there is not much You can do.
Call Him, write the letter, send some symbolic gift. And You will see Him in person soon.
My Father gone when I was working. I always called Him few times a week, and visited at list once (we lived in the same city), but this time it was few hours too late.
You will never know when is Your or Your Father time... No matter if You live in the same city, province, country... or on the other side of the World. But remember - always be to Him as You want to remember Your relation. And this is not about this situation, but every relation between every people. Every second can be last. So live Your life the best way to remember, and be remembered. No regret in memories.
i know what you felt in your heart about your absence of your father's birthday, it is really a bad experience.
but, there is always something in our life that we can do nothing about it, what we can do is just to accept it.
do not be sorrow, do what you can do now, for example, a phone call, a video chatting on the net, a blessing text message, all these can help you relieve your homesickness.