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Is it true that a man will go bad when he becomes rich?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-11-5 14:31:17 |Display all floors
This post was edited by rainyweather at 2012-11-5 14:34

My friend’s uncle is a rich and middle-aged man. Recently, my friend began to complain about his having affair with young and more than one lovers to me.


Here is his story; I simply call him “Uncle Yang” here.


Uncle Yang was born in a rural poor family. He has always understand how important the hard work and thrift are.


He and his wife came to Beijing to run a grocery store at first, later saved some money and started investmenting in stockmarket . In a few years, they began to get rich so that they can live a wealthy life in Beijing.


However, Uncle Yang started to have some new ideas about his life. There are many beautiful female college students in Beijing, he has a strong desire to get a young, beautiful college student as his lover.


He began to look for opportunities to meet the beautiful girls on the campus of the University, and make friends with them at first. But after having sex with a girl, he felt regretful and guilty for doing that. Though he could break up with his lover, soon after, he can’t help searching another young lover. Every time he always succeeded in winning his “games”.


When Uncle Yang was young, he can’t afford school fees due to his poor family financial condition. That was why he admired those people who can have good education. He felt that having young college students as lovers can definitely satisfy his desire for compensating his loss when he was a teenager.


After I heard of this, I felt really sorry for Uncle Yang’s wife. She did nothing wrong. She is a good woman and doesn’t deserve all of sorrows which are brought by her husband when he gets rich. I bet she would rather live a poor life with her husband now.


I am just wondering if it is true that a man will go bad when he become rich or have power?


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Post time 2012-11-5 14:40:40 |Display all floors
tell you, women aren´t different{:soso_e133:}
some day Jiangsu will rule China

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Post time 2012-11-5 15:22:26 |Display all floors
Hi Rainyweather,

Not always, like you said he came from a rural poor family, people like him(not everyone) has a higher self esteem. He likes to be the center of the attention because he may be ignored when he was a child. How to be attention? Money, women. The more he has the more admire he gets from others. So having affair a quick popular to the people like him, and quick popular to the young uni girls (only in this case)to accept the "free gifts" to fill out their satisfaction.

Second point you mentioned " He felt that having young college students as lovers can definitely satisfy his desire for compensating his loss when he was a teenager."----from my point of view, it is bulls**t. He could satisfied his desire by treat his daughter as a queen in stead.

I agree with you about his poor wife. There is no point to live with this man anymore at this stage. I understand marry with one man is one of the basic chinese tradition. But I donot think it will continuing exist in China in a long run.   

Hope this could help you

Cheers,
Cybill

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Post time 2012-11-5 17:03:35 |Display all floors
If only one man do these, society morel will blame on him. But more people do that, it's common. That's saddness for the whole society

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Post time 2012-11-5 17:28:22 |Display all floors
"I bet she would..."

don't bet. just ask Her.
maybe the answer will be different then You think...? You never know. You are not Her.

____________


and Yes

women are the same, there is no significant difference

and Yes

I'm talking about first-hand experiences, not only "secon hand", "third hand" or "I bet..."

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Post time 2012-11-6 18:49:11 |Display all floors
it' s a very common phenomenon in china. so maybe girls in china should think about their own future and rethink their values, konw what is the most important thing to them.

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Post time 2012-11-7 08:39:16 |Display all floors
sophia1992 Post time: 2012-11-6 18:49
it' s a very common phenomenon in china. so maybe girls in china should think about their own future ...

sooner or later China will be Porn Country like Japan~
just a matter of time~
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