Author: Dara

How can I stop my colleague harrassing me?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-8-10 15:51:03 |Display all floors
Z_Yuky Post time: 2012-8-10 15:43
Sexual harassment!!!!
May be you just need to tell him that u effect of AIDS. (But it seems not goo ...

That sounds intimidating, but he may as well use a condom

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Post time 2012-8-10 15:59:45 |Display all floors
Magicjoe Post time: 2012-8-10 15:51
That sounds intimidating, but he may as well use a condom

...Do you have any suggestions? If I were Dara, I didn't know what to do, either.

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Post time 2012-8-10 16:42:53 |Display all floors
Z_Yuky Post time: 2012-8-10 15:59
...Do you have any suggestions? If I were Dara, I didn't know what to do, either.

  stare him in his eyes and be firm , whenever he does something inappropriate, shout it loud.
Don't back down

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Post time 2012-8-10 18:33:00 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Alex2010 at 2012-8-10 18:33

You are in a bad situation. To be honest with you I don't think he'll stop. He's in a better/stronger situaton than you are and I fear that if this goes on you'll one day give in and start a sexual relation with him.
Such things happen often in Chinese companies(of course also in companies everywhere in the world,but in China men often get through with it). Although sexual harrassment may be illegal....he probably won't be punished for it....the one suffering will be you at the end.
Maybe try to confince him you already have a boyfriend and will marry soon.Maybe let a male friend of yours play this role and bring him to the company once or twice to get you after work. But my advice would be:leave that company!!!
Patria est ubicunque bene/Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit

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Post time 2012-8-11 14:56:45 |Display all floors
workplace is dangerous.

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Post time 2012-8-11 15:57:36 |Display all floors
Alex2010 Post time: 2012-8-10 18:33
You are in a bad situation. To be honest with you I don't think he'll stop. He's in a better/stronge ...

that's great! ill ask my friend to play the role


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Post time 2012-8-11 15:58:23 |Display all floors
VanRex Post time: 2012-8-11 14:56
workplace is dangerous.

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