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How can I stop my colleague harrassing me?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:40:35 |Display all floors
You might put yourself in a dangerous situation, be careful. You have to find a way to let him know that he will regret if he did something wrong to you. For example, you told him that your uncle is a chief officer, {:soso_e112:}

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:55:16 |Display all floors
Best theory is marry him.

Many in the forum cannot manage a husband.He might earning more.

Dont feel shy Dara.

By the way how tasty the hug was

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:58:45 |Display all floors
DSseeing Post time: 2012-8-8 15:28
If your boss is nice to you, why don't you tell him or her and have your colleague fired?

maybe not fired, but disciplined? all depends of what guanxi he have...

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Post time 2012-8-8 16:06:51 |Display all floors
aziz Post time: 2012-8-8 15:55
Best theory is marry him.

Many in the forum cannot manage a husband.He might earning more.

You must be joking .

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Post time 2012-8-8 16:08:15 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2012-8-8 15:58
maybe not fired, but disciplined? all depends of what guanxi he have...

I don't think it'll work. He's more valuable to the company than me. He's senior after all

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Post time 2012-8-8 16:36:40 |Display all floors

- first talk to him directly (did You do that?), that You own Him respect, as for the senior, but don't want Him to act as He does

if it would'nt work, You have to choose:

- talk with Your boss, or other senior (maybe "more senior" that is mentioned man), and try ask him/them to talk with this man in private and make him stop doing that
- make big noise when He will do it again, let it sound like almost rape... but be aware, that some will not take it serious
- prepare to change a job (look for another), in meantime "keep smiling"
- accept his actions and do nothing, living with Your feelings, and letting it poison Your life slowly

it is up to YOU

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Post time 2012-8-8 16:38:50 |Display all floors
Civilized countries have laws that protect women from sexual harassment.

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