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How can I stop my colleague harrassing me?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:10:49 |Display all floors
I've been working in this company for more than a year, my boss has been nice to me. If I continue to work harder, I'll surely get a promotion or a raise.

But there's shameful thing that has been bothering me: the male colleague. He totally ruined my good first impression on him. I thought he was a decent man until he suddenly hugged me from behind in the elevator!

I learned much from him as he's been in this company for more than 5 years. He trained me during my probation period.

I was grateful to him for his tentive help.  But I gradually found that he grew kind on me, it made me nervous about it. I don't want a relationship with him.

He's almost 40, divorced. I have no time to play around. I want a guy who'd like to settle.

Now I'm in a very embarrassing state. We always see each other in the office. I'm really stuck in here. I can't go ballistic on him and let people know, I can't quit, I have to fake a smile on him.

And he still haven't stopped harrassing me

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:13:12 |Display all floors
Is is called sexual harrassment, but in China that is common.

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:16:35 |Display all floors
grb Post time: 2012-8-8 15:13
Is is called sexual harrassment, but in China that is common.

It happens, but I'm in a dillema

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:17:35 |Display all floors
grb Post time: 2012-8-8 15:13
Is is called sexual harrassment, but in China that is common.

It's not bad enough to sue him.

He once grabbed my hand when there's no one around

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:28:49 |Display all floors
If your boss is nice to you, why don't you tell him or her and have your colleague fired?
Life is what you make of it

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:37:03 |Display all floors
He is disgusting. What he is doing is try to take advantage of you.

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Post time 2012-8-8 15:39:18 |Display all floors
Dara Post time: 2012-8-8 15:17
It's not bad enough to sue him.

He once grabbed my hand when there's no one around

Cut his nuts off.

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