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What i want to say is she is not that into you.|
Not all the girls in China are same as what you describe to your girlfriend. Many women are quite finacially independent, they totally have the ability to survive without other's help. But when they are having relationship with men, things become somewhat different. I am not saying they become lazy or unable to feed themseves, it's just their mindset, perhaps thousands of years of Chinese tradition influence, they prefer or take it granted that their boyfriends should pay bills in most cases. If their boyfriend don't pay, they are likely to be considered stingy or not masculine. But if the girl really likes someone, she will pay sometimes as a way to sign that she cares about that guy, and loves to continue the relationship. Otherwise, the guy keeps paying all the time. When their relationship escalates and turns to be a forthcoming marriage, it really doesn't matter who pays bills, because they share everying with each other, including money.
Now go back to your girlfriend. If she really loves you, she won't insist that you pay everthing, and won't told you that that is what it is. She probably is taking advantage of you. So get out of the relationship!