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Post time 2012-4-11 16:10:38 |Display all floors
He's never bought flowers without my request;

Not only that, he always says that he'll change his bad habits after upseting me, and yet he's never changed;

Not only that, he's been constantly in touch with his female friends;

Not only that, he's not as proactive to say "I love you"as he used to----

I'm not sure how much longer I'll put up with him .

What should I do?

Back to my quesion: What kind of men should be dumped without thinking twice?{:soso_e135:}
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Post time 2012-4-12 11:41:26 |Display all floors
The picture you have posted says it all.

Have you ever bought anything for him without him demanding it?

There is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex. A friend is a friend, it doesn't mean that they are lovers.

Find a man who already matches your ideals or, failing that, get a dog because they are easier to train.
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Post time 2012-4-12 15:19:02 |Display all floors
Somehow, I feel that he doesn't love me as much as he used to.

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Post time 2012-4-12 16:33:47 |Display all floors
This post was edited by loveyouall at 2012-4-12 16:35

Firstly, try to talk openly with him.  And if you feel that he does not love you same as before.  You should have dumped him and then wrote a post about it.
But at the same time,  In the beginning of the relationship,  both male and female are at their best behaviour, best dressing, best caring, best even while choosing underwear before making love.
But once the initial stages are over,  its reality.  What we see in the beginning of a relationship is like an advertisement.  Its a rosy picture but then we see the normal behaviour.  Maybe you also changed in some ways so that is why he is also gone back to his old self.   And secondly,  why do you need flowers for him to show love.  
Do what your heart tells you to do, talk to your friends and family.  Probably they are more aware of the person and the situation.  Writing here is any sense?  Will you get a right advice from strangers?
That will mess you up even more.  This is not like asking how to install software on your computer or asking for a recipe to make a dish.  
Sorry if this offends you,  but its the only way i can see it.
if you can be happy with what you have, dont wait for more

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Post time 2012-4-12 16:52:03 |Display all floors
He's never bought flowers without my request;
---- Maybe he is not a romantic man...
Not only that, he always says that he'll change his bad habits after upseting me, and yet he's never changed;   
---- It is hard to change the habit and need long time;
Not only that, he's been constantly in touch with his female friends;
---- If you can not put up with,you should select a honesyy man;

As a man,i think if you want a happiness life,you shouldn't select a handsome/Too rich/Too romantic man as the husband standard.

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Post time 2012-4-12 17:12:30 |Display all floors
loveyouall Post time: 2012-4-12 16:33
Firstly, try to talk openly with him.  And if you feel that he does not love you same as before.  Yo ...

Thank you for your words.

I always hesitates to do things. That's one character of mine.

Another bad quality of mine is that I always like to hear others' advice.

I meant to ask some girls around here what they wound do.

I'm still in love with him

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Post time 2012-4-12 17:32:31 |Display all floors
Gossip Post time: 2012-4-12 17:12
Thank you for your words.

I always hesitates to do things. That's one character of mine.

Yes you are in love with him,  that is why you ask here for suggestions.
Probably you should ask him whether he still loves you the same.  If yes then talk about it and give it a
fresh chance.  If not then dont waste time,  start your life and find another guy who appreciates you.
if you can be happy with what you have, dont wait for more

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