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xilaren Post time: 2012-3-4 22:49
you remember very well Messi.It is true that I carried my excitement openly in the forum in the pa ...
No Xilaren, you are wrong, is not about if I remember well or not your forum stories. Let me explain you why.
Many People in this forum are easy to remember for their posts (or agendas), some of them concentrate against the West, some against Christianity, some for 9/11, some for extremely pro China, some for hatreds, some for their humor and you for your love threads, the reason? Love for another man being a married woman as you said in this thread and in the past, but you added a particular touch in your posts, innocence, sadness, tenderness, sweet words for somebody else, for this country, for the your country and this country, etc. but at same time when you have a chance you put yourself as a victim from different situations, that as I see in this forum, nobody cares, nobody understand, nobody support you and at same time disturbing the forum, fortunately seems you stopped and that’s very good for you and for forum.
You created yourself for your own benefits a "big spotlight", same as few others with their own agendas, it’s like some of you have their own “brand name” in this forum by the peculiarity in your posts, so its not difficult to identify people here neither to have an excellent memory, as in another thread a poster said, you are an “attention seeker”, as you should know that’s a personality disorder, a illness that should be treated.
You are not naïve at all Xilaren, I think you are very intelligent person, you know what are you doing and maybe your mistake here was, you wasn’t discrete, you didn’t moderate your enthusiasm, and the love controlled you but you allowed it.
About people who criticized you, you didn’t give them weapons, you played the Russian roulette here and you know the rest.
Try to create a better self energy and self positivism Be loyal with your conscience, be loyal with people who trust in you even they don’t know you are in this forum. Loyalty is an obligation that we have with others whom deserve it. I would like to see you debating serious topics, especially problems that concern the ones whom really care about China, we need mature people with different points of view to make a better forum, that’s a way to gain respect and consideration and that’s what you need.
Again, you are intelligent person, if you don’t cease to be the spotlight, nothing will change about you in this forum. Victims and heroes exists mostly in our history books. I hope you understand this reply. Best wishes and luck and I'm sincere in my wishes.
(Honestly I wanted to ignore your reply, to save my energy but lately a friend of mine told me his experiences with his gf who where ever she goes, especially in meetings or public places, she try to be the center of the general attention and listening tohim it came to my mind you as a member of this forum, that’s why I am replying you now).