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What if you are married to mama's boy?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2011-11-30 11:33:22 |Display all floors
The Son and Mother problems are very simple in the Daily life. what 's the view point?  Most of Chinese Mother are spoil (a child) without any things. Every mother  think that her son is the heart of his life.
which they are care about all their life ,and son is obey with the mother's will, which limited their own idea ,metal.

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Post time 2011-11-30 12:24:58 |Display all floors
if the husband always like this .it is better to live separate with his mother and donnot connect frequently .

but is bad for a wife  l
have more than one  a chiild to educate

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Post time 2011-11-30 14:07:40 |Display all floors
This post was edited by aa@edward at 2011-11-30 18:40

How old is this female in question? If she is > 40, then it is surely a hard luck story till 'her mom' finds her final address; else just live in reality of this world. The divorce rate in a New_China is as high as any western developed nation like changing underpants daily; so make a move in the right direction of your choice and China provides this freedom of choices at a low cost. As statistics in China show, there will be fewer Chinese born females than males; and perhaps soon, rural Chinese males may have to go expensive shopping abroad like Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, Thailand, The Phillipines, Pakistan, India, etc... to look for wives or females to fit into their local lifestyles. Cheers!   
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Post time 2011-11-30 14:22:45 |Display all floors
greatlady Post time: 2011-11-28 20:32
I don't think it is common in China.

It's  the negative side of traditional filial piety.  Chinese mothers are powerful and pretty much call the shots. Woe to the daughter-in-law who doesn't meet her approval.  Themes of tyrannical mother-in-laws have been very common in Chinese movies, novels and operas.

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Post time 2011-11-30 18:28:51 |Display all floors
Sweetie -- Pick a country: Mama's boys exist all the world .... It's simply maturity.  If he doesn't have it now he likely won't have it later.  Move on and seek a mature adult male.

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Post time 2011-12-1 10:50:34 |Display all floors
It's  really a dilemma, because many girls fall in love with  boys for their respects and obedience towards parents. The highlight of this merit has gone too far .Girs cannot tolerate it anymore. Escaping is not the best way and they need to negotiate face to face.

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Post time 2011-12-1 11:54:54 |Display all floors
All the mama's have a big contribution to play for her boys marital life.But in many cases we found specifically in Asian society the mama plays a fowl role and make the married couples life miserable.
This is happens in a joint family.We too face this problem.

What about mamas daughter?The same----.Making a phonecall and guide her with a remote control which is not tolerated by the boys mama.

Joint family option gradually reducing in the developing countries.
But in a separete single family face problem when a new guest comes in the family.Early take care,raise a child,feeding extra food is a task of a mother.Only then a unwanted mothers value risen.Bcz modern disco girl dont know anything about a sound family life.

This critical situation cannot be overcome in every cases.Millions are happy in a big joint family.
Only two in a single family fight even everyday.

The problem hidden in family value education.
A good mother raise her child in a disciplinary way.
A nonsense mother raise it in a terror way.

The problem persist forever.
Decision is yousr how you handle it to make your offspring happy in their life.

And that is a vital contribution in every parents life !!

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