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its enough, time to think in yourself
Originally posted by gqjsy6688 at 2011-6-17 14:35
i am not happy.
4 months ago i confirmed my husband extramarital affair. i cry again and again. i was so angry that his gf is his co-worker. he cheated me and hurt me deeply. he cheated me for ...
I always said
To have a calm and peaceful life never get an affair, relationship or games in workplace, even you are single.
"Accidents" anyone can have it and always there is time to corrected IN THE RIGHT TIME
The husband is a cheater, totally a cheater, 4 years is long time, what your husband has is not a simple affair, she is part of his life and while he is working in that place he will meet her again and again.
If i were your husband and i want to give you back the trust and happiness i will leave the job inmediatly. i will value you more as a wife and as a mother of my daughter, If there is love honestly your husband should cut it any link with that woman and to start to look for another job, but seems that option he didnt considerate it yet.
While you are living with him, while he is in that job your life will be miserable, even you tried to forgive him, IS HIM who has to do everything to change and improve the situation, to erase those pains that is killing you. They betray in a marriage is terrible and if at this time he did nothing for you, its time to leave him, you deserve a better person as a love partner. Dont worry for your daughter, she is innocent in this situation, his father should has to support her being with or without you, that's by law.
If you take the desission to leave him
things will seems more complicate for you and is in this case when your family should support you
Talk to your parents, sister, brothers, cousins about your situation, it will be a challenge but somebody have to support you, if some people give you their back, keep going, its not the end of the world. Find a job, enroll in a gym, or take some classes of something you like, see the world different, You can do it.
A wonderful woman is who keep her beliefs, who fight for better future, who keep her dignity, who face the life different when there is not odds, what is more important, who loves herself first and who shows in front of everybody that nobody can beat her
I think you are that kind of woman, for your daughter, do the right thing
Is better one big cry, one big disappointed and one big pain and file the divorce than to keep married to somebody who already bring you down and to have a MISERABLE LIFE with him
Best of lucks :)
Come on people
Applause for me please