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Well, if I have an argument with my gf, we usually just talk it out. If I'm getting too emotionally involved, I go to take a walk; if she does she's pretty cute, so I usually just watch her till she gets tired. |
I'm not really into that Chinese cold war stuff - if I lady tries to freeze me, I usually treat it as a good opportunity to take care of my study, as no one is going to interrupt me.
I think it's really important that if you have an argument, you keep your partner's interest in mind and try to work out a solution both can be happy with. A relationship is not about power, it's about love - and over the long term, love usually wins. So if my gf does something I don't like, I usually don't blame her, I just do it the way I'd do it.
In addition, it's important that you make your partner feel save. Better give in and make your partner feel he is "right" sometimes, just for the sake of strengthening your partner's self-confidence. If he is wrong, he or she'll usually figure it out early enough anyway.