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Originally posted by chonggongzi at 2010-6-6 20:16
they are not actively by the reason of chinese custom,
that can't be changed in short time,
That is where you are wrong, they are changing very quickly in a pretty short time. Girls are taking a more active role in finding a mate. Good for these girls, with a country that has 120 boys for every 100 girls, they are increasing their odd of finding a suitable boy, a diamond in the rough if you will. I swear, for every 10 quality girls in this country, there is like, one quality boy (based on personality, looks, etc.). So it only makes sense that girls start to be more active, and also, they can afford to be picky as they look. It amazes me that boys are actually the ones who are picky. Hello! You outnumber girls, take what you can get!!
Originally posted by blessingyou at 2010-6-7 00:36
Chinese girls are too shy to be active in finding a boyfriend, just like me ...
Please do not generalize. There are at least 700 million Chinese women, and within that huge number of people, are plenty of outgoing, active modern girls, some who will even chase a suitable man. You are so entrenched in your own thoughts on what a Chinese girl "is" based on your own beliefs, you fail to see what many of these girls actually are in this day and age. Totally different from your mind set. Point being, not all Chinese girls are shy!
My number one advice to Chinese girls: Don't settle, be picky, demand a lot from your boys. Girls were undervalued for so long in China. Now it is your turn to take the power back because you are outnumbered now, so you make the choices now!
[ Last edited by indiefan at 2010-6-7 10:33 AM ]