Author: fatboy

Why are Chinese girls so passive in finding a boyfriend? [Copy link] 中文

Rank: 1

Post time 2010-6-6 17:07:40 |Display all floors

Nice discussion

If any girl need a bf, Then try me out.I am a good passive and attractive guy..........my email address is dar_tai2007@yahoo.com

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 5Rank: 5

Post time 2010-6-6 17:17:38 |Display all floors
Originally posted by ali007 at 2010-6-6 17:07
If any girl need a bf, Then try me out.I am a good passive and attractive guy..........my email address is dar_tai2007@yahoo.com



I doubt that being "passive" is a good attribute for a guy^^
Patria est ubicunque bene/Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 4

Post time 2010-6-6 18:57:29 |Display all floors
My wife got me by throwing an Argentine Bolo around my legs, and while I was down, she branded me on the ass, and said "now go to work you caucasoid bastard".                  Passive my nalgaz.

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 1

Post time 2010-6-6 19:41:56 |Display all floors

enjoy your life especially love your love

I really touched by these words,it's just what we 08's are.And I try to translate here
聊qq的时候
landing on QQ
喜欢隐身了,
used to be unvisible
不怎么爱在群里发言了,
dislike  to share in the group chatting room
同学聚会必修的两个项目:吃饭,KTV
tow must things when in a classmate party:meal and KTV
小孩都开始叫自己叔叔或者阿姨了,
start to be called as somebody's uncle and aunt
虽然经常不大情愿地反驳着:叫姐姐,叫哥哥
although we used to reject the form of address,and like to be called as old sister and brother
不管你是一人独处时,还是身在人群当中
whenever you are alone or in a crowed
就像那首歌中唱的一样,孤单,是一个人的狂欢,狂欢,是一群人的孤单。
it's just like a song"lonlyness is a crazy party for a single body;a crazy party is lonelyness for a single body"
有点不喜欢节日了 节日只能让幸福的人更幸福 孤单的人更孤单。
afraid of festival which makes happy guys happier ,lonely poor guys more lonely
慢慢发现自己没那么愤青了,遇到不公的时候,会告诉自己,社会就是这样!
and find yourself geting young  cynic less and less when be treated unfair ,retreat and tell yourself it's OK just the reality
开始不喜欢被人说成熟!
hate to be praised as mature
我们的爱好中必定有一项是睡觉,
and sleeping became one of our hobbies,mostly except working
可不知为什么凌晨12点前很少会入睡!
but can help to stay late till 12 a.m.
漫漫的什么都可以“随便”,因为没那么多时间,也不在意那么多的事情。
there is nothing to care about and there is no extra time for
总觉得别人不可能了解自己,并以此作为对别人不屑的理由。
always thought nobody can understand you and take that as an excuse to totally ignore other ones
曾经以为一辈子陪在身边的朋友,某天某月,就突然发现他们都不见了
uesd to take somebody as forever friend and always by  your side,but they disappear gradually in your life
午夜醒来,才愕然发现,从来都是只有自己一个人,
when woke up at the midnight,found out it's just you here,yourself alone always been
人越成长,越容易孤单。
getting more lonely when growing up

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 4

Post time 2010-6-6 20:16:06 |Display all floors
congratulate that you know  "sheng nu",
they are not actively by the reason of chinese custom,
that can't be changed in short time,

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 1

Post time 2010-6-7 00:14:04 |Display all floors

Subject: Why are Chinese girls so passive in finding a boyfriend?

So many responders confuse "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationship with nothing more than the pre-stage to marriage. Some of the responding women say they are just having fun and will do boring things like marriage later. Both points of view involve to much self-rationale and thinking about stages of life. These are nothing more than immature stereotypes of an idealist life. To see how ridiculous these ideas are, read some LuXun or Ch'ien Chung -shu ("Fortress Besieged") to see critiques of these antiquated ideas. It is not hard to find a boyfriend if you eliminate stereotypes and look deeply into the heart and mind of a man or a woman.

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 1

Post time 2010-6-7 00:36:17 |Display all floors
Chinese girls are too shy to be active in finding a boyfriend, just like me ...

Use magic tools Report

You can't reply post until you log in Log in | register

BACK TO THE TOP
Contact us:Tel: (86)010-84883548, Email: blog@chinadaily.com.cn
Blog announcement:| We reserve the right, and you authorize us, to use content, including words, photos and videos, which you provide to our blog
platform, for non-profit purposes on China Daily media, comprising newspaper, website, iPad and other social media accounts.