Who do you turn to when you face difficulties?

polaris1120

when we're children, we cry or complain to our parents when we meet sth. difficult in the outside world. when we start to be at school, we like to turn to our best friends because we don' trust our parents in our teen age. when we start to work, we may choose to ask advice from our spouses or partners. it seems that the older we get, the less we tell our pains to our parents, even though they're our closest relatives. we may think that we've grown up and it's a shame to talk about difficulties with them, we must be strong at least in front of them, to ensure them that we live well.

hardluck2008

We invariably report  good news to our parents,but never release any bad information to them~~

It's a way which all filial sons or daughters should take~~

polaris1120

but don't you think that they have the right to know your sufferings as well as happiness? we share our happy smiles with many people, but only unveil our pains to our closes relatives

hardluck2008

you can do it at your will~~

however,if what u told would hurt them,why should u confess your sadness?

tom2005

I consider the best method is that you can look for some friends and relations, sometime, yourself is the best way to slove these problems.
I trust none can trust except yourself, or you will live very tired and pain.

XiaoweiWu

Originally posted by polaris1120 at 2010-5-25 14:28
when we're children, we cry or complain to our parents when we meet sth. difficult in the outside world. when we start to be at school, we like to turn to our best friends because we don' trust our ...

last week i told my mother that i failed in a exam,
i was on the phone crying to her and say sorry about my loss,
she said she was always standing behind me.
Therefore,it's a effective way to turn to your parents while dealing with questions.

austin.pun

Originally posted by hardluck2008 at 2010-5-25 15:15
you can do it at your will~~

however,if what u told would hurt them,why should u confess your sadness?

I agree with u all..