Author: constance6891

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Post time 2009-11-5 23:45:04 |Display all floors
to be honest, I don't think money is the dominate problem.
Sometimes,love fades away. Just like the wind.
We can't decide when do we out of love,but we can try our best tokeep it fresh.
Then leave it long.

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Post time 2009-11-6 08:44:47 |Display all floors
Originally posted by constance6891 at 2009-11-2 18:08
I'm totally clueless about this.

I mean why will two people in love break up?

It doesn't make any sense to me.

Maybe I can learn from others because I have no experience.[/co ...


You are totally wrong because if they are still in love,I mean if they are still love each other, there is no possibility to break up.
So ,the answer is "they don't love each other or there doesn't exist any love or  their affection is not lasting any more ".
I also have no experience about it .However ,this I know for certain .
Actually ,any kinds of affections is the same. E. g. friendship,everybody is surrounded by friendship ,that is the most common affection ,of course ,except for affection between you and your parents.

Once I had  a good friend ,her name is secret .Once we both thought that we are the best friends  forever, but the fact proved that we told  a lie to ourselves. In fact ,there hadn't happen any thing between us ,only as time  goes on ,the  alienation of our affection  gradually appeared. We both don't know the reason and no one wants to konw ,and at last ,we are not friends at all. What I will emphasize is that we had been friends for nearly 6 years .

Until now ,I still remember her ,and I  asked where she was at one time. But I think there is no need to contact with each other .

That's what I want to say .Maybe you can understand a little. :)
Sometimes ,something will happen with no reason ,really ,even the persons involved can not explain...


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Post time 2009-11-6 16:38:43 |Display all floors
Originally posted by satsu_jin at 2009-11-5 15:25
I believe the main reason is that the husband or sometimes the wife or both of them did find somebody more interesting, more challenging, more attactive or simply more sexy. This happens all the ti ...


why do u think elizabeth Taylor were married countless times(>10???)

till all of us lost count!!!
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Post time 2009-11-6 16:40:01 |Display all floors
Originally posted by markwu at 2009-11-5 17:34
Couples break up because the glue was not strong enough.

The type of glue is important.  When young, it is intense love and longing. That is chemical or hormonal glue.  When older, it is the nat ...



my glue or correct to say my rod is so strong

that sweetie cannot let me go la
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Post time 2009-11-6 23:37:16 |Display all floors
Originally posted by markwu at 2009-11-5 17:34
So the feeling that i imagine a couple has i now lay down on this screen ...just for you.



For me?

Ok, I need some time to understand your words, an experienced person's point of view.

So many scientific problems to solve, no time to ponder on love. So quite new to it.

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Post time 2009-11-7 11:48:13 |Display all floors
Recently there's news about the divorce reached peak in August and September in a district in Zhengzhou, Henan. When the children left home to study in universities in other cities, the couples divorced. They couldn't hesitate.
Vision without action is illusion---Y.J.

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Post time 2009-11-7 13:28:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by constance6891 at 2009-11-4 23:03




Thanks for your well wishes.

To me it is unnecessary for me to be with someone I like to make me happy.

Bf or husband is just an "extra option" in my life. :)[/c ...


A wise man said "....the purpose of life is to make life...."

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