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Post time 2009-11-27 14:27:38 |Display all floors
Friday, November 27, 2009
Mature
I didn’t know quite much know what is mature, when I think that I am almost reach 30s and I should be mature, from other people point of view, but actually I didn’t quite much understand that words, what we call is mature.
This morning I chatted with one friend, she told me that she was kind of confused about love and didn’t know how to move on for her life. Her problem is that she doesn’t want to hurt others, as at this moment some guys are like her at the same time.
One guy is the manager of the furniture factory; he was failure in his business at before, so he borrowed 8W from other person that need to return the money back to them. Base on that loan, it is impossible for her to have her dream come true as she wants to buy a house and get marry next year. But at before she was kind of upset and confused about love, only after two months of they came to know each other, she said to him:” Do you love me? If yes we will get marry immediately. “ He is kind of scare by her request, so he refused but very soon he knew that she is a good girl and agreed, but she immediately regret what she said.
However, she liked another guy and that guy like her too, she also think that he is a good boy for marriage, so she chose him, however another problem happened too. Another guy told her that he liked her too. She told me he called her at 3am this morning and told her he missed her very much, as she is kind-hearted, she doesn’t want to hurt them, even she likes only the second guy.
I think mature people know how to handle the situation like this skillfully, but as a girl to handle that situation, that is very hard.
What is mature anyway? Is that mature people can make decision easily than the immature one?
At what situation will a guy call a girl at a very deep night?

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Post time 2009-11-30 14:29:52 |Display all floors
Monday, November 30, 2009
Relationship
Yesterday is Sunday, so I went to BF’s place, he cooked the soup for me and later we went to his classmate’s place, we asked him to go out for lunch, and then we chatted.
His classmate is also Electric Engineer, that isn’t any special of him, but his wife is the woman that I pay attention to, her life is totally difference between mine.
When at my 16s, I am just went out of school, mother told me that I should work hard and save money to support the family, so that is what I did, I worked hard and didn’t pay any attention to other, like love. Until I am 26 years old, that I am already at the high time for marriage.
Very dislike me, she is from a wealth family, and at her very young age, her mother told her that to look for a wealth man for marriage. So she is at the same age of me to go out from school and looked for a job at 16s. So, under her mother instruction and teaching, she started to look for Mr Right from 16s, so it is very easy for her to look for a man, because at so young age, that is a lot of guys are not marry, not like me, I am start looking at 26s, and most of the guys at that age already married.
So she did, she didn’t pay any attention to her work, not to mention study. But she pays attention to her boyfriend, now became her husband. Because of that need to support her life, her husband work hard and study hard to get enough money for expenditure of two people. So her husband is quite successful as now he is the chief Engineer in the company.
For me, I work hard and study hard and I save the money as much as I could, and then pay them all to the house, when I look for Mr Right, I can hardly find the one that suitable one for me, even the present one, as he doesn’t have any pressure of life that only need to support himself, so he doesn’t need to work hard to support another person’s living, and he doesn’t at any savings.
What a big difference, different life attitude leads to totally different result.

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