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Post time 2009-9-13 14:52:19 |Display all floors
I tend to look down and avoid  eye contact for some reason. what do you do?
Do you look at the ground? Straight into their eyes? Do you have a steady gaze or uneasy shifting eyes?

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Post time 2009-9-13 18:37:26 |Display all floors
I wont ,but if she were pretty,or I am going serious discussion with man---------I will give an directly  eye contact----------- to show my respect.

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Post time 2009-9-13 20:10:17 |Display all floors
I tend to give a quick look at the person I'm talking to and then I'll look at other places. That is if I'm close to them.

If they are new people, I'll look at them more often  

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Post time 2009-9-13 23:24:23 |Display all floors
It's a good question.  It depends on a lot of variables.

1. How well I know the person
2. How close we are physically when talking
3. How serious the topic is
4. What is going on around us while we are talking
5. And of course, if I am talking to a woman, how attracted I am to her  

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Post time 2009-9-13 23:28:45 |Display all floors
The more casual the conversation the less eye contact the more serious the opposite action.

It's also related to the purpose of the conversation, i will look more a person in the eye if i want to hook up while i will look elsewhere when if I'm just having a friendly conversation.

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Post time 2009-9-14 00:12:26 |Display all floors
I don't like when people do not look in the eye ,
it's a lack of franckness .

for my job i use to have contacts with many guys from mus/lim countries ,
During a negotiation , when they are talking with me , some of them (not all )  prefer to look around or at the ground rather look at me ,
is it because iam a woman ? Certainly yes.
i feel umconfortable.

[ Last edited by luly13 at 2009-9-14 04:14 AM ]

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Post time 2009-9-14 01:52:23 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Kbay at 2009-9-14 00:40
I personally go for the smell.
I can detect if a person is nice or have gone bad by their smell.


Are you deliberately trying to make yourself seem disgusting?

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