Author: lostdream76

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Post time 2009-9-8 23:31:16 |Display all floors
you need to see a psychological docter, after all, your health is more important

you mentioned the problem are the difference of culture background and the strong characters from both of you.     but  this didn't reveal the specific problem or exact difference to us,  maybe u know what they are , but didn't write them down here.  if u don't know , figure it out first

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Post time 2009-9-9 00:45:00 |Display all floors
Originally posted by lostdream76 at 2009-9-8 14:24
The pains I have are long and intense.

Somethings when I think back to the arguments we've had and some of our disagreeing view I get really sharp pains in my head and chest pains. I wake up ev ...



You have suggested the best solution

Yes...you are right!

Give yourself space

She does not have to move out

You can take a short trip alone

You need your own time and space to rest and reflect

A short break from her would definitely do you good!

I am sure she wouldn't want to have a stressed-out bf or husband in her hands!

You have sharp pain in head?

Better consult with your doctor soon

Check it out

OK?!       :)

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Post time 2009-9-9 08:25:47 |Display all floors

Try to believe yourself!

Try to believe yourself and give both of you some space to calm down before the situation become a victious circle.

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Post time 2009-9-9 09:01:28 |Display all floors

future is only future

I think you must considrate yourself is really love each other. If not, break up is right, else, why so much argume you will know.
The argument of life will be delete if you care of each other!

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Post time 2009-9-9 09:03:59 |Display all floors
if you don't try to change yourself to accept all of your gf's culture and character and shortcomings, you will argue all along, no matter you marry or not.

if you don't wish to part with her, first you should do is change yourself!

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Post time 2009-9-10 04:39:39 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Sergery at 2009-9-9 08:25
Try to believe yourself and give both of you some space to calm down before the situation become a victious circle.



Yes you are right! Its been like this for months.

I can't explain my love for her.

All my friends say I should leave her and that she is not good for me.

The issue I have is that sometimes she behaves, like I should look after her.
She also wants me to provide a house for her if we get married. She always talks about me buying her a car as well.
She is not a girl that likes money, I know she is not like that. But I feel a couple should do there best for each other.

I have read some posts saying I should accept her culture. I feel that if did and we get married it would eat me up inside and I wouldn't be the man
she first feel in love with. Its been going around in my mind.

I just want us to be equal in the relationship, not in regards to many but how much effort we put into each other.

I don't see money as a symbol of showing my love, but to her its quite important.

I think I will take sometime out, to serious think if I can do this?

[ Last edited by lostdream76 at 2009-9-10 04:44 AM ]

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Post time 2009-9-10 12:42:26 |Display all floors
anyway, what a rommantic LOVE, i'm admring it

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