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Post time 2009-9-8 13:24:30 |Display all floors

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on the road of life
i think what you have meeting is nature while you are on the road of your life in a certain period.
what you said is the same case almost everyone must endure.
whatever different characters.exchang pressure.and so on,is always case.everylovers must face it directly.
bless you !i hope every thing wil go well.just hold your gf 's hand and conquer anyting standing in front of you.

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Post time 2009-9-8 13:38:19 |Display all floors
Originally posted by thunderbird at 2009-9-7 05:34




Do you want to have a short pain?

Or

A long pain?


You assume you can not live without her

Care to find out if it is true?


One way or the other

You have to find out!
...




1.May all the lovers of the world become united in wed lock~~~

2.A great man can't brook a rival~~

3.Matrimony means endless responsibility & obligation,not only Love~~4.Health is the most important in life~~

5.Love between man and woman can not be substituted by other human emotions ,feelings~~

......

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Post time 2009-9-8 13:39:31 |Display all floors
Originally posted by lostdream76 at 2009-9-7 01:59
Hi,

I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years now and I am under a lot of pressure to marry her.

She says that she is under a lot of pressure from her family and she wa ...



1.May all the lovers of the world become united in wed lock~~~

2.A great man can't brook a rival~~

3.Matrimony means endless responsibility & obligation,not only Love~~

4.Health is the most important in life~~

5.Love between man and woman can not be substituted by other human emotions ,feelings~~


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Post time 2009-9-8 13:44:47 |Display all floors

tolerance

The marriage needs tolerance. In general, girls lack the sense of security and the home ,familiy can make them feel safe.

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Post time 2009-9-8 14:24:55 |Display all floors

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The pains I have are long and intense.

Somethings when I think back to the arguments we've had and some of our disagreeing view I get really sharp pains in my head and chest pains. I wake up every morning with anxiety.

I have suggested that we take a break for a bit to clear our minds. But taking a break would mean that she would have to move out of my house for a bit. She said that if she leaves or takes a break, that she is not coming back. So I will never know if I will miss her?
She a good girl and the type of women I want to settle down with, but we both have strong beliefs about our cultures.

My head is clouded and I really need space and time to get over the arguments and think clearly around everything.
Not having space, my health, our unresolved issues, our arguments and the pressure to marry under these conditions is making me really ill.

I'm very in love and currently confused on what to do?

[ Last edited by lostdream76 at 2009-9-8 02:30 PM ]

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Post time 2009-9-8 14:35:11 |Display all floors
Originally posted by thunderbird at 2009-9-7 05:34




Do you want to have a short pain?

Or

A long pain?


You assume you can not live without her

Care to find out if it is true?


One way or the other

You have to find out!
...



I agree with you!

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Post time 2009-9-8 15:04:17 |Display all floors
everyone have big pressure if only he/she is a alive person,
every person at the age of marriageable should face the matter of marriage,and solve all problem between two familly, it's the same thing whereever you are from and yr gr from.
Be brave to face and solve all mess things, don't be a lamster, even wanna to give up.
you can deal with your health problem if them followed the pressure.
or,you must let both of you free asap.

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