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Friday, September 04, 2009|
A friend a mine, last year resigned from her well-paid job in GD and then went back to her hometown to find a job as foreign trade, her hometown is in Chengdu, and however it isn’t easy for her to find a job as foreign trade in CD, even she has four years experience in foreign trade, however she spent four months, only to find a job that with half salary than her previous job in GD.
She complained about her life, for she has higher expenditure in CD, she needs to rent a house in CD and half of her salary gone, also the fee for traffic, for food, for living, she can’t make the end meet every month. So she complained quite often.
But it is a wired thing that she didn’t want to go back go GD for better job, because it isn’t her hometown, it is so hard for her in her hometown, but she is satisfy with the tough work and condition, however during the time she suffered the hard task, she kept complaining all the time, so her life goes like this.
We make decision for our life, sometimes we get one thing and we lost other thing, that depends what we think is more important for us. Is that right thing to do complain all the time after the decision is made, is bad thing or good thing?
When I talked with her about the decision, I said:” You are confused with yourself, you make up that decision and then you hate that decision, is like you are slap your face yourself?
She said:” Why I can’t complain even I myself made up that decision, I still have the right for complaint, right?”
When at that point of view, what is right and what is wrong?