I am already a 21-year-old college girl. But my parents always control me. I have to obey themwhen i am with them . When on vacation, i was only allowed to travel with them, because they want to protect me from all the harm around the world. They even force me to sleep early and get up early because they are afraid i will suffer from insomnia when i get old. They keep telling me when to brush teeth and even buy me the clothes they think they are fit for me. Is it only me who suffer these or it is very normal of every parent? I obey them because i love them so much and dont want to hurt their feelings. I hearded that the parents in western counries never force their kids do anything, is it?
Originally posted by irenevande at 2009-8-24 21:59
I am already a 21-year-old college girl. But my parents always control me. I have to obey themwhen i am with them . When on vacation, i was only allowed to travel with them, because they want to p ...
Do you think your parents would behave like that forever?
before I have a job,my parents often tell me that "you should do something like that ""you shouldn't say the word in this way "
now, I am working in a company.Everthing changed ,because I can do everything if I like,I'm not a child although they used to trate me like a child,when I get home,they would phone to me and ask what do I want to eat .However,they won't cntrol my pivate time.
They treat you as a child,because they want to look after you .
U are the so-called after 80' generation .
it's normal that u parents see u as the apple of their eyes
but they control as u said is abnormal ,tooooooooooo strict !
are U the only child in ur family ?
if so ,it's still understandable .
maybe they have not realized u have grown up ,they regard u as just a little girl
maybe they just think u are far too be independent,if so ,grow up .
When was a student my parents also ask me to do somethings that they think beneficial to the study but I didn't follow them.And now when I'm a worker they try to persuade me to find a goog gril and get marry,I also don't follow because I think I was too young to get marry.I'm afraid to make telephone to them.