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Wednesday, August 05, 2009|
I am the first child of my family, and I am a daughter, as soon as I finished middle school, my parents asked me out of school and earn money to support the living of the family.
I was only 17 years old at that time, I was out and looked for a job, I worked as labor worker and got very little salary, However, my parents called me and asked for money to support my family constantly, I got very hard time. In order to support the living of my family and myself, I worked so hard and studied so hard just to get more salary.
I helped my family to build a three-floor building, I gave the money to little brothers to get driving license and their living. As the time goes by, I was 26 years old and only at that time I considered about my marriage and it was too late.
I saved money so hard and paid for the deposit for a house two months ago, and I got a heavy loan from the bank, I thought that through my hard-working, my life is getting better than before. But this morning, my sister’s decision shocked me a lot.
Different from I was forced by my parents that out of school and looked for a job to support my family, she is lucky enough that can continue study after middle school, but this morning she told me that she didn’t want to study now, and want to go to my place to look for a job.
I was so angry, I have the heavy burden from the family and I didn’t want to take more burden, I need to move on with my future life instead of always thinking and helping the family. And now she came to me at only 17 years old, not working skill, not high education, what kind of job I look for her? And how is her future will be?
I was so desperate, I don’t want someone to depend on me again, I want my own life back, I can’t always let someone to depend on me. I am the first daughter, but so pity that the salary for my first brother plus my second brother salary is my salary. They get very little salary due to poor education, I don’t have much salary too, but does it mean I should help them more? Why can’t they depend on themselves?