Author: cattie-fan

is premarital sex a must? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2010-2-5 13:32:19 |Display all floors

My personal opinion

When the men turn to their twenties, all of them will have the sexual desire ,then it is up to their girlfriends to make the decsion.If your girlfrieds don't accept ,you do not need to be angry or sorrow,because it is not a measue of her love to you .If she accept  then you need to take on your  responsibility.

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Post time 2010-2-5 13:47:18 |Display all floors
Nothing is "must" in a healthy and mutually respectful relationship. That being said, consensual sex before marriage causes no harm as long as it is done properly, i.e. with contraceptives. In its early stages, love is sustained to a great extent by lust, diguised, suppressed, or expressed, which shall dwindle as the relationship progresses, making way for spiritual bonds and shared perspectives on life, etc, but it will never leave the picture altogether,as sex is one of the most basic and primal needs we are wired with, failing to satisfy which will lead to problems in other areas of life.
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Post time 2010-2-5 16:46:32 |Display all floors
Maybe its a LUST rather than a MUST.

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Post time 2010-2-6 01:47:23 |Display all floors


Originally posted by huanben at 2010-2-4 14:54

  hah  he is a siant!!!

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Post time 2010-2-7 10:03:46 |Display all floors
Originally posted by cattie-fan at 2009-6-16 10:26

short answer YES

more elaborate answer  Hell Yes!

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Post time 2010-2-8 10:34:14 |Display all floors
I dunno,it all depends.I did it with my ex-girlfriend.But i think its acceptable for a couple to have sex before they get married,as long as they love each other,plus,i dont think they can contain the desire to it if they live together.of course,there're some exceptions.Like one of my colleagues,he's been in a relationship with his financee for like 3 yrs,but they have never had sex so far.Its kind of unbelievable.Anyways,they're going to get hitched this spring festival.

above are my humble opinions about this topic.

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Post time 2010-2-28 10:07:35 |Display all floors

The Emotional Dangers of Premature Sexual

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