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The Importance of maintaining good relationship [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2009-6-3 12:54:02 |Display all floors
Originally posted by scorpiondy at 2009-6-3 11:32
I have an old good friend who is my classmate in junior school, though we don't cotact each other after we enter different university  in different city, i still thought that  the friendship betwee ...


you are showing up another key question on how to maintain the relationship for the buddies no see for many years...

sometimes i also have this feeling as you mentioned. especially for my classmates in junior school. when getting through the phone call, it's a little bit hard to find the common topic to talk, even feel little embarrassed. maybe it's the time that fade away the common interests and relationship between. for this case, i prefer to keep with them via msg infrequently...

i really feel it's not so eary to handle this relationship...

who here could make some good advice on this?

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Post time 2009-6-3 13:46:48 |Display all floors

Auld Lang Syne

:)Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
and never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
for the sake of auld lang syne.
If you ever change your mind,
but I living, living me behind,
oh bring it to me, bring me your sweet loving,
bring it home to me.
bring it home to me.Yeah~ Yeah~

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Post time 2009-6-3 13:51:54 |Display all floors
Originally posted by scorpiondy at 2009-6-3 11:32
I have an old good friend who is my classmate in junior school, though we don't cotact each other after we enter different university  in different city, i still thought that  the friendship betwee ...

you 2 are too close.... never cross the borderline...

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Post time 2009-6-3 13:58:28 |Display all floors
Originally posted by allenmiao at 2009-6-3 12:54


you are showing up another key question on how to maintain the relationship for the buddies no see for many years...

sometimes i also have this feeling as you mentioned. especially for my cl ...

maintaining is far more difficult than create...
i got same... that's why i only got 3 friends that lasted more than 12 years...
i lost many friends in my previous life... that's really fustrated...
my suggestion is never too close... i mean living in a room in one night? Fine. 1 week? sounds OK. more than 1 month?? Never...
if you 2 have to stick together, then set up rules and follow it...
if you don't feel comfortable, then tell him/her. Understand and accept what your friends really are...
And never forget one thing: no matter how similar you are, you are different... you are 2 different ppl. don't expect him/her act just like you.. ppl had different thinking...

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Post time 2009-6-3 15:24:22 |Display all floors
狐朋狗友呢 be careful when developing friends ,it takes time :)
i am always the best one

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Post time 2009-6-3 15:26:54 |Display all floors
I think the best friendship between people is that it can promote the development of both mutual.

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Post time 2009-6-3 15:31:13 |Display all floors
i don't know how ,
my friend is my wife   
i am always the best one

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