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Post time 2009-4-24 14:49:54 |Display all floors
Originally posted by robertcheng at 2009-4-23 16:58


You just haven't got over him.... He's still in your mind...Don't hold that kind of opinion on yourself and love yourself...



what should I do to forget someone.everyday I can see him if I want to do it.everyday I can't help seeing him,and after it ,I will
feel rather comfortable with a little painful in heart.
cann't you forget someone with the case that he appears before you eveyday.

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Post time 2009-4-24 14:51:29 |Display all floors
Originally posted by robertcheng at 2009-4-23 16:58


You just haven't got over him.... He's still in your mind...Don't hold that kind of opinion on yourself and love yourself...


I clearly know it,I think the answer will be the same who suffers fron the same situation.

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Post time 2009-4-24 15:24:39 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 654421079 at 2009-4-24 14:49



what should I do to forget someone.everyday I can see him if I want to do it.everyday I can't help seeing him,and after it ,I will
feel rather comfortable with a little painful in heart.
ca ...

It is really matter to you. change department or find new job.....

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Post time 2009-4-24 16:42:24 |Display all floors
Originally posted by janezhang88 at 2009-4-24 15:24

It is really matter to you. change department or find new job.....


Do you think it is worth to change job and apartment because of him,
I am living with my firend ,I cann't be so selffish,
she will be angry with me,if I do it because of the reason,
I have mentioned about it before,
but failed in persuade .

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Post time 2009-4-25 15:08:25 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 654421079 at 2009-4-24 14:49



what should I do to forget someone.everyday I can see him if I want to do it.everyday I can't help seeing him,and after it ,I will
feel rather comfortable with a little painful in heart.
ca ...


Find something entertaining yourself or go for a journey.... Only time counts... Some day you might find that he's just an ordinary person and your then affectionate feeling on him is totally gone...:)
Another day , another dollars!

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Post time 2009-4-25 20:23:25 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 654421079 at 2009-4-23 14:10
to forget someone you love deeply is so difficult.
I tried all my ways to forget,but still I cann't manage it.
I think I have to find a new one to distract my mind.
but none seems attractive exc ...



Finally I see that everybody who loves somebody and is not loved suffers a lot and feels as you describe.

I never had such an experience in my life for many years.Now I understand you very well and I know this feeling.

I would advise you to go away from the area he is.Avoid meeting him.If you continue to meet him it is as if you put salt in the wound.
Then think about  the reasons why he left you.This is very important.

I will talk to you about myslef what I would do.
If somebody left you because he found another girl it hurts a lot but it is easy for you to forget him
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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Post time 2009-4-25 20:30:02 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 654421079 at 2009-4-23 14:10
to forget someone you love deeply is so difficult.
I tried all my ways to forget,but still I cann't manage it.
I think I have to find a new one to distract my mind.
but none seems attractive exc ...



Finally I see that everybody who loves somebody and is not loved suffers a lot and feels as you describe.

I never had such an experience in my life for many years.Now I understand you very well and I know this feeling.

I would advise you to go away from the area he is.Avoid meeting him.If you continue to meet him it is as if you put salt in the wound.
Then think about  the reasons why he left you.This is very important.

I will talk to you about myslef what I would do.
If somebody left you because he found another girl it hurts a lot but it is easy for you to forget him

You will find another guy who will deserve your love.Even if he comes back he will be halp happiness for you.He will never become yours.His heart will belong to his new girlfriend.

If he left you because he does not love you then it hurt a lot but you have to find ways to overcome him

We should not be selfish.How can you make somebody love you.Again finding another guy will help you a lot.


If he left you because it was your fault then you need to find out and show with your love and patience that you have changed.
This is my advice in general I do not know if I have covered your case.
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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