it is so hard to solve the problem.But what should you do fist is to let him know that romantic relationship between you is imposible and you also to maintain friendship with him.then let him cool down some time . Time is the panacea to cure all!
If you do not have any romantic feelings for him, it should not be difficult to make this clear to him. If he values your friendship, he will accept your feelings and move on. If you do have some romantic feelings for him, he will sense this and try to move the relationship forward. So, I think the key is your own feelings. Women can lead men on unconsciously.
so be careful. It sounds like he is making demands, which is not good.
Originally posted by alfaable at 2009-4-6 15:13
If you are good friends, but oneday he told you he love you, and you always consider him as your friend, you also want to maintain this friendship, but he told you this is impossible, he only can c ...
'you are good friends', it means you have good feelings of him. thinking about him if you don't have other better choices. mountain will become to sea and our friends will also become to your boyfriends. don't make clear limit of your relationships with others, otherwise you will lose a lot.
think about what is the reason of he approaching you.