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Monday, March 02, 2009|
Yesterday, I went to GZ and visited one friend.
That friend introduced a boy for me during my visit, she told me that she has never meet that boy before, and she doesn’t know I am suitable for him or not, because she has not idea about him.
It was cold at weekend, we all thought that this year doesn’t have Spring but directly turn to Summer, for it was rather hot for the previous several days, I wore enough clothes for myself, and I knew it was a long time for arriving the destination.
When I arrived, that boy didn’t reach the place yet. I saw friend’s house is much difference with the previous time, her daughter grows rapidly, with cute face and wonderful smile. “ it is a nice thing to have a baby for one own.” I thought:” I should have one very soon.” However, when I tried to hold her, she escaped from me:” My own daughter won’t act like that.” I smiled, I dreamt of my future.
My friend told something about him, he was the guy that she mentioned to me days before, she said:” it is a good chance for you to catch him, because he is very successful boy, he is a bit order than you but it is ok, thinking from Chinese traditional way.” Still I didn’t have much interest in him, but I thought it may be good thing to visit my friend, that is the reason I came, I knew that I may think something wrong, because I treated it as a game, but not blind-date or something, to pay attention to it seriously.
Very soon he arrived, as my friend told me, he is not tall, but it is ok with me, because I am very short. We had lunch together and then we sat and chatted.
I didn’t speak much during the chatting, because the conversation isn’t my interest. I just sat and listened. But I heard my friend questioned him, which is very funny.
My friend is a successful woman, her sharp words and sharp questioning that can find out people’s character, habit or other information correctly, that is the place I admired her very soon.
She asked like:” I know what you learnt in your college is technology, but you work as salesman in your company, does your job relate with your job this moment?”
He answered:” A bit, when customers ask some technology information, I know how to reply and explain to them.”
She said:” it is very skin-deep, you say but you don’t work as technician any more.” At first I didn’t know what is the meaning of hers questioning like that, however very soon I realized it, to be a salesman is a very risky job, but to be technician is stable job, but technology updates very quickly, he may not able to work as technician skillfully at the future.
As that boy required very strict height, and I am not tall, but my friend stood up and said:” stand up and let’s compare who is higher, me or you?” The boy stood up and she looked at me and said:” look at us, who is taller, me or him, I think I am taller than him.” Her point is to tell me his height, I am at the same height as her, and she knows that.
I thought she was thinking:” You are not tall, but you asked me to introduce one girl taller than 160, it is not realistic.”
I felt very funny for her talking, she asked his education, economic status etc; even I just sat and listened, but I didn’t express this in my face, at 3.30pm we left, she sent me to the bus station, I was thinking what comment I should give about that boy after the introduction, for I didn’t think he is suitable for me. She said:” Look, I am telling the true, he used to be my husband’s college and it was also the first time for me to meet him, so I didn’t know him at all before, I think he is not suitable for you, I can find it from my judgment, maybe I will find one worse girl for him, but I don’t think you are suitable for each other.”
Then I admired her very soon, she has good sense of judgment.