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Post time 2009-2-10 05:54:33 |Display all floors

if that's the case 4you then you're obviously NOT really ANGRY angry at all...

Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-2-9 15:26


There is no need to scream out to show your anger.I am usually calm but I say the right words and show my displeasure.Screaming out is something whic I completely avoid so that I will protect m ...


angry has to show ev'rythin & i mean almost ev'rythin that you've got...now, that's ANGRY, xilaren  

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Post time 2009-2-11 03:31:30 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-2-10 04:26


There is no need to scream out to show your anger.I am usually calm but I say the right words and show my displeasure.Screaming out is something whic I completely avoid so that I will protect m ...


I see what you mean!

Anger = An emotion

It is ok to be angry = it is ok to experience such an emotion


How to express an emotion like anger is a different story

You can yell, scream, shout, kick, punch, bite, chop, cut, etc...

Or

You can assert yourself calmly, forcefully, logically, firmly, non-violently, non-abusively, positively, etc....

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Post time 2009-2-11 05:37:30 |Display all floors
Originally posted by thunderbird at 2009-2-11 03:31


I see what you mean!

Anger = An emotion

It is ok to be angry = it is ok to experience such an emotion


How to express an emotion like anger is a different story

You can yell, screa ...

I agree with you.An iron fist in a velvet glove
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Post time 2009-2-11 05:38:07 |Display all floors
Originally posted by NYChinatown at 2009-2-10 05:54


angry has to show ev'rythin & i mean almost ev'rythin that you've got...now, that's ANGRY, xilaren  

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Post time 2009-2-11 05:41:30 |Display all floors
Originally posted by thunderbird at 2009-2-11 03:31


I see what you mean!

Anger = An emotion

It is ok to be angry = it is ok to experience such an emotion


How to express an emotion like anger is a different story

You can yell, screa ...

I do not shout loudly but I can not say that I do not shout at all.I use shouting in a calming way ,talking firmly and decidedly in a way that somebody would be convinced about my stability and seriousness.
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Post time 2009-2-16 18:38:11 |Display all floors
[quote]Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-2-10 04:26


Getting angry at any time doesn't help with the problem solving and could make things getting worse.
Releasing your anger without anybody around,that could be better.
***always to be yourself***

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Post time 2009-2-16 18:50:20 |Display all floors
Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2009-2-16 18:38
[quote]Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-2-10 04:26


Getting angry at any time doesn't help with the problem solving and could make things getting worse.
Releasing your  ...

always under control and of course using a polite language.
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