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Originally posted by greatlady at 2009-2-6 19:20
When I think about that,I feel deeply sad inside.It was like more than 10 years, I sent money to my parents every year,whatever how hard life I had outside of the city without any friends and famil ...
I am so sorry to hear about your story.
and I am absolutely sure you are a good daughter with filial piety to your parents and brother.
in my opinion, you should cut down your moeny to your parents at once. only give money back to your parent on some special days,
such as spring festival, parents' birthday, mid-autumn festival etc.
as you know, you always satisfied your parents by giving money you could to them, but regretful for you that they always saved your
money to your brother, even left their house to him, never considered your status as their bloodly true daughter, right?
in addition, even so, your brother don't take great effort to support himself, only relied on your parents, actually relied on his sister/yo
u indirectly. :L this will be never beneficial for him to support himself in future, right?! :handshake
but you should never terminate the relationship with your parents and brother. after all, you all are the families for sure. and your par
ents gave your life and brought-up you until graduation from university, right?!
I think you shouldn't pay any pigue to them, never do that. you just think about how to handle and deal with this issue well. i think yo
u absolutely will give your great support on them once they are in embarrassment in future. you should take action let them know ac
tually you have played your roler as daughter/sister well before and they shoudn't think, do and treat you that as before in future.:hu
hope everything will be fine to you. good luck.:handshake