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Post time 2008-12-30 23:41:13 |Display all floors
we chinese don't do that very often, some never......except with their spouser or bf/gf.....

yesterday i told my parents that I wanna a hug every day before bed, since I'm still living with them....it'll be regreted if we don't when I move out to start my own family...they were startled but i insisted..they laughed...we all feel good indeed.

I hug with only one of my close friends(a she of course). The touch from each other really makes me feel intimate and secure and warm and supported!!! amazing!!! when we hug, it's a deep and solid and tight hug!!

I think it helps, even with no word but a single move i express all my good wishes and so does she! fantastic!

will do that more often, only with the right and worthy person~~

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Post time 2008-12-31 00:03:51 |Display all floors
iamlost,

In the US, it is usually close friends and lovers who hug each other. Most Americans avoid hug.

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Post time 2008-12-31 00:09:30 |Display all floors

yep yep

Originally posted by timbatu at 2008-12-31 00:03
iamlost,

In the US, it is usually close friends and lovers who hug each other. Most Americans avoid hug.



can't imagine hugging a stranger or a mere acquaintance

in china, close friends seldom hug....they put arms around necks or hands on shoulders at most....a posture ready for a photo shot!

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Post time 2008-12-31 00:18:47 |Display all floors
I  think   the  hug  is  the catalyst  to  strenthen  the  love

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Post time 2008-12-31 00:19:14 |Display all floors

should BE the other way around...

Originally posted by timbatu at 12/30/08 11:03 AM
iamlost,

In the US, it is usually close friends and lovers who hug each other. Most Americans avoid hug.


most WESTERNERS hug each other but not us asians  

maybe you're fresh that's why they avoid your intimate what so called...HUG  

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Post time 2008-12-31 00:38:16 |Display all floors
Originally posted by iamlost at 2008-12-30 23:41
we chinese don't do that very often, some never......except with their spouser or bf/gf.....

yesterday i told my parents that I wanna a hug every day before bed, since I'm still living with  ...


Do you hold hands with your female friends in China?

I noticed many women holds hands on the street in China!     

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Post time 2008-12-31 16:32:13 |Display all floors

for young girls

Originally posted by thunderbird at 2008-12-31 00:38


Do you hold hands with your female friends in China?

I noticed many women holds hands on the street in China!     



they hold hands! but I don't like that...and MOST girls hang out arm in arm!! that's more common

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