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Tuesday, December 02, 2008|
Yesterday, as I was troubled by the sofa designer, as I didn’t want to have any relationship with him but he kept talking and asking. He asked my mobile number for many times and I thought it wasn’t proper to do that didn’t let him know my number, as we are colleagues. So I told him.
I was not busy at work, but he talked that much and I thought maybe I should find a job to end his interest in talking with me, a suitable way. However I messed it up, I chose a bad way to stop him for talking me too much.
Girls are timid and conservative in their feelings and reaction, especially in relationship. I was not but I was over-reacted. He kept asking me:” Should I invite you for dinner sometimes later.”
I was not interest in going, so I said:” I am sorry but I am not going out with boy alone.”
“But you went for it with your previous boyfriend.” He said:” Why not with me also?”
I thought it was enough, so I asked:” Are you trying to chase me? I have to tell but I have a high standard for choosing Mr Right.”
“ How high is it?” he said.
“ You must buy a house in Guangdong, I am not going back to Hebei( where he comes from).” I said it directly.
He said:” I am very disappointed, you care about material things so much, and you are learnt girl, I can’t believe it.”
I said:” Yes, that is me, I care about it, I can’t leave my family and leave my career but because of love, I follow you to a strange and unknown place, I can’t sacrifice that much, and not love can make me sacrifice that much.”
He said:” I hate that kind of girl, always care about money and money, now I tell you that I am capable of buying a house, I have a sister that is a boss and she can help me for it, now are you regret with what you said!”
Suddenly I was kind of angry with his dare, I am not materialism but he thinks I am, I choose my way for living and he showed his sister wealth to make me regret, So I said:” I guess we don’t suitable for each other, and I am not going to tell you my explanation and convince you to stay in GD and buy a house there.”
Then he said:” You are marry for money, and you will never have true love in your life.”
I troubled with this very much and I want to end up the conversation, so I said:” Yes, I marry for money, not for love, I am not leaving my family because of love, so I guess we are not suitable.”
I felt very sorry for his remark, and I felt rather sad and uneasy, that made me kind of upset last night.