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Post time 2008-5-16 19:38:46 |Display all floors
Originally posted by seneca at 2008-5-16 16:05
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If I read you correctly, your living mother was both a blessing and a burden to you: Burden because you had her on your mind. She kind of controlled your desti ...



I did not answer your question
Listen to my answer.I feel relieved not because she is not watching me haha.I feel relieved because I have made her own dreams true.
something also important.
Although poor me I tried hard to manage things for her ,any time I had a success she never accepted it.
She used to say ,oh God helped you 'that is why you have managed.

YOu see if I considered myself better than her then she would not been the perfect mother any more and the perfect woman on earth.
So I was never sufficient for her.Never She made it quite clear .
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Post time 2008-5-16 19:47:56 |Display all floors
Making others happy is saintly.

But there's a lot of explanation to do about who these "others" are.

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Post time 2008-5-16 20:03:03 |Display all floors
SHould we sacrifice a life in order to make people happy?

Answer? No. you are a life, everyone on the planet is a life.

Just remember, every single thing you say (or write) has an affect on whoever hears it. It may be a positive effect, it may be a negative effect. It may be a big effect or a small effect, but everything that comes out of your mouth has an effect on someone.

So simply choose wisely the words you speak so that they can have the effect of making people happy. That's it! But you must love yourself first or you will be unable to perform this action, you can only love other people if you love yourself first.

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Post time 2008-5-16 21:32:38 |Display all floors
Originally posted by middleway at 2008-5-16 20:03
SHould we sacrifice a life in order to make people happy?

Answer? No. you are a life, everyone on the planet is a life.

Just remember, every single thing you say (or write) has an affect on w ...



I always encourage people and give them wings to fly.It is my pleasure to do it because I have an optimistic way of looking at life.So only optimistic words come out of my mouth.
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Post time 2008-5-19 10:02:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2008-5-15 04:05
These days I have been in serious thoughts about what a stupid way of life I have been  having..

From my early childhood  I carried the obligation to make my mother happy and accomplish her own  ...



I thought WOMEN ARE BORN TO MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY?

Why are you doubting yourself?

And only now?


No, stay the same way.  That's what ALL WOMEN SHOULD DO.  


And you're NOT WRONG.  Men are happy with women who make the men happy.

Your mother is not wrong.  You should not doubt her or yourself.  After all, IGNORANCE IS BLISS.


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What I said, remains.

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