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Post time 2008-5-5 10:42:28 |Display all floors
Originally posted by linjian at 2008-5-5 10:18


accidental侧重偶然,不经意,似乎兼有可遇和不可求的内涵,但少了原文两相对比并强调爱不可强求的思想,而且失之直白。:)

网上看到一个歌名:Love Comes From Unexpected Places.

“爱,可遇不可求”蕴含了东方文化的哲理,强调了“缘分”的决定因素。accidental字典的释义为“Occurring unexpectedly, unintentionally, or by chance”,与该含义相似------既然是“偶然”的,而非“必然”,就无须强求。

有一“quote”跟该句话有异曲同工之妙,愿与大家共享:“ True love cannot be found where it truly doesn't exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does.”
If winter comes, can spring be frozen ahead?

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Post time 2008-5-5 10:47:37 |Display all floors
“ True love cannot be found where it truly doesn't exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does.”

真爱无隐。:) 有,总能找到,没有,怎么找也找不到。
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Post time 2008-5-5 11:22:05 |Display all floors

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爱,可遇不可求。挺伤感的一句话,呵呵,但我觉得,爱,运气的因素还是是其次的,也许爱情不来,只是自己自我修养不够,还没准备好罢。爱情需要等待,在自我提升中,耐心等待,伤感的诗意的执著的满怀期盼和遐想的等待。
I can't agreed with you more, right, if you are worthy of love, love will come to you. so we must polish ourself to be a better man.

Above is a very sensible statement, i though you were a female, it is very matuer thinking.

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Post time 2008-5-5 11:26:03 |Display all floors
第一眼看到这句话的时候,我脑中顿时构思出一个比喻,那就是“爱是一场流星雨。”有幸看到流星雨的人是幸福的,碰巧遇到心爱的人也是幸福的。

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Post time 2008-5-5 11:40:07 |Display all floors

Love comes by encounter, not by endeavor

我觉得这个翻得好.

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Post time 2008-5-5 14:55:09 |Display all floors

sorry, but i don't agreed with you

Love comes by encounter, not by endeavor.爱,运气的因素还是是其次的,也许爱情不来,只是自己自我修养不够
we seek for love, make our effect to make us well worthy of love, and to establish and maintain a true-love relationship, of course first of all, you have to meet someone of potential lover by luck. acctually, love is verywhere,if you can find it out, and you are the one wrthy of love.it is just around you.  

love may come to you itself, but you can't will it come to you.

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Post time 2008-5-5 15:10:26 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 19831005 at 5-5-2008 14:55
Love comes by encounter, not by endeavor.爱,运气的因素还是是其次的,也许爱情不来,只是自己自我修养不够
we seek for love, make our effect to make us well worthy of love, and to establish and maint ...


爱情,一个太古老同时又日久弥新的人生课题,前人说的太多了,我们继续说,后人再继续,自然想起传道书里传道者的指引:

4         One generation passeth away, and another generation cometh: but the earth abideth for ever.
5         The sun also ariseth, and the sun goeth down, and hasteth to his place where he arose.
6         The wind goeth toward the south, and turneth about unto the north; it whirleth about continually, and the wind returneth again according to his circuits.
7         All the rivers run into the sea; yet the sea is not full: unto the place from whence the rivers come, thither they return again.
8         All things are full of labor; man cannot utter it: the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing.
9         The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.
10         Is there any thing whereof it may be said, See, this is new? it hath been already of old time, which was before us.

归根结底,人们为之如此耗费的爱情,真不知道其真实的内涵是什么,或如罗素所言,爱情,在更深层次上,还是个体对自己存在的孤独的逃避。可个体的孤独哪里有逃避之所呢,孤独是每一个思考着感受着的个体生命的宿命。孤独让人提升,真正的爱情让生命升华,这这样的爱情,天下有几份呢,找错了,人生将是一个更难堪的存在。比较悲观,感觉,再引用一句,忘了谁说的,应该也是萧伯纳说的吧,一切美好的事物都在纸上。美女也要打嗝的,再好的东西,到了现实,总要混入下杂质,打些折扣。爱情,在网络里,其实是个最无聊的话题。
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