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Post time 2008-5-8 17:23:04 |Display all floors
Originally posted by qizhiye at 8-5-2008 10:36
it's so ashamed that confessing I am turning on 81, zero gf record.
many people ask edme why, it just happened not  met the right women.
I see  there are many people sharing the same feeling wit ...



81???  typo I guess?

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Post time 2008-5-9 03:39:33 |Display all floors
Dude firstly you definitely shouldn't feel bad about it.  It's natural despite it probably seems like everybody around you's feeling the love - you'd actually be surprised at the amount of people without SOs!

That said, if a 0 bf record is troubling you that much, I agree with auchengyu that you gotta be active.  It'll sure as hell increase your chances.  Basically, I follow the - be confident, look guys in the eye, smile (not giggle) and converse formula.  If you have self confidence, it does shine through (and if you're lacking in that department, play pretends - you'll never believe how easily they're fooled ;) )  and it seems guys are attracted to that.  I suppose because you're giving out the 'I'm approachable and open to new relationships vibe'.    And smiling is so important.  I find that smiles brighten up even the dullest faces - it makes everyone beautiful.   And you're a interesting person, let others know - treat guys who catch your eye like your normal friends and let them see your personality!  

Personally I love being single and free to do whatever, flirt with whomever.  Relationships don't gel with me, right now at least.  Life's too short and there's still so much I gotta do before getting tied down by a guy!  So I say - enjoy your freedom while it lasts :)

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Post time 2008-5-9 15:45:52 |Display all floors

A bit difference

Zero gf record while the difference is not that without meeting one i love but that i can't engage in for some reasons.
She is pretty girl and i bless happiness goes along with her!

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Post time 2008-5-9 19:20:38 |Display all floors
me too. i have no gf  though i am 25.
From the point of my view, it is your choice.
Maybe some times you feel alone, but it is also funny..
as you can enjoy with freedom..
that is great..

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Post time 2008-5-10 11:43:47 |Display all floors

bf / gf

Wow....

I am 60, look pretty good (so many years as an athlete) , have a lot of money, am a writer, musician, have a factory, am funny, smart, good at problem solving, am kind hearted and generous, and I can not find a gf! (a "proper" gf)... so I eat alone, and of course, sleep alone... yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! So, I just keep working...

Don

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Post time 2008-5-10 11:47:31 |Display all floors
I am 25 ,from school on ,just only one I loved ,but I have lost this real pure love .

do you think i m the one you will love ?

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Post time 2008-5-10 20:57:00 |Display all floors
We either boys or girls all want to be the one who is loved while not the one  loves.:):):)
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