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Ok, so the penis/boob comparison was bad, I admit it. But breasts ARE a sexual thing for guys, I mean you don't just think "they're pretty", like you'd think her earrings or shoes are pretty accessories. It's part of her body, and women with large breasts grow up KNOWING where guys are looking, no matter how slick the guy thinks he is by only stealing glances when he thinks she doesn't notice. |
And yes, if you two are out in public, then she's in public, and still probably simply just doesn't feel comfortable showing her body.
I don't know how far along your relationship is.... is you've been intimate privately... ok, I mean if you've DONE IT already, and are comfortable with each other, you could shop with her to buy her some lingerie or underclothes you both like, and maybe she can at least treat your eyes in private.
I'm not a hot young sexy thing, but I'm not fat or ugly or anything either, I'm normal, and I just don't feel comfortable with people seeing my body if I don't know them well. It's just part of my personality. When I was very young, and wanting to show off, I did so, a little bit, but looking back, why was I showing off? Because I was proud of my body? Ok, yeah, I was, but you show your body so OTHER PEOPLE CAN SEE, period. You don't see your own body unless you're looking in a mirror. You're doing it so other people can see you and you can see them looking at you. Period.
Why did I want to show off? So maybe I'd catch a guy looking at me and it'd make me feel good (it still does, but guys still look at me even if I'm dressed not-sexy, haha)....
Anyway... I'm not saying it's totally wrong to dress sexy, but it *is* for attention, and it's also part of personality. So.... your girl isn't looking for attention (see it as a good thing) and she's just got a modest personality. She can be confident without needing to use her boobs to attract attention. This is a good thing, believe it or not.