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Post time 2007-10-15 15:49:23 |Display all floors
Originally posted by fatdragon at 2007-10-15 13:18


My wife has explained with great patience that her orders are only ever issued for my benefit and how I will suffer if I do not follow her guidance.

She is a wise woman.

Are you sure?It may be for her befefit.Think about it.
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Post time 2007-10-15 16:21:11 |Display all floors

my standing point

I am not willing to be ordered by others, I am not willing to order others as well.
One thing that's truly hard to eradicate is the idea.

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Post time 2007-10-15 16:30:32 |Display all floors

Thank God it's not only me

Originally posted by crimsonwolf at 2007-10-15 16:21
I am not willing to be ordered by others, I am not willing to order others as well.



I accept orders providing they are polite.
I feel relief  with your answer.At least it is not only me.:handshake
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Post time 2007-10-15 16:34:58 |Display all floors
Originally posted by susansusan at 2007-10-15 08:26
Well, I feel powerful when giving out of order, but I feel also happy when accepting orders, it is so normal.

so you are suitable for a management staff !

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Post time 2007-10-15 16:40:16 |Display all floors
yes, it's very very hard for me to give orders to others. i would prefer to do all the things by myself. "so you are not eligible for a management staff ." one of my friends told me once.
i don't know why , besides it's difficult to tell sb off when he or she did wrong things and hurt me very much. i just remember it and keep him or her away from me other than punish him or her like people usually do .

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Post time 2007-10-15 17:10:22 |Display all floors
Originally posted by mjackson321 at 2007-10-15 16:40
yes, it's very very hard for me to give orders to others. i would prefer to do all the things by myself. "so you are not eligible for a management staff ." one of my friends told me once. ...

I also find some polite ways to keep them away from me.I am not tolerant at all when they ignore me.
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Post time 2007-10-15 21:34:03 |Display all floors

a new boss?

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-15 15:44
To be honest I give orders to my children.I have no problem.
I also tell people what to do only as some advice.Then again I have no problem.
I am also obliged to give orders in my work but before ...


you would get used to it soon.......
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